confused68 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I was in a long term releationship with my bf of 3 years... pretty much from the beginning he texted with other women sexualy with exchanging pictures etc, this went on and on no matter how many time I told him it hurt me. We were 4 months from being married and he asked me to move out since then he has gotten another girlfriend yet still says he loves me and come over to my house etc. now he has broken up with her and wanted me to know he is sorry for the way he treated me as I did not deserve any of it, yet he wants to get back together but tells me that he can't promise that he can change his ways he wants to bring another woman into our bed on occasion for variety yet I can't bring another man. I am very confused as I am very much in love with this man and want to be with him I know he loves me but why won't he just get help and stop? He says it has nothing to do with me not being enough for him he just wants to be able to have sex with other women with me sometimes... HELP
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 why won't he just get help and stop? Because he doesn't want to. And why would he want to change? What he's doing is working for him. He can get away with doing whatever the hell he likes. He was sexting other women (and probably having sex with them too) while you were together, and you still got ENGAGED to him? WTF? Why on earth would he want to change or "get help"? he just wants to be able to have sex with other women with me sometimes... HELP Well if that is not acceptable to you... Why are you still reading? Just ditch the cheating jerk.
Flgirl44 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 If you are okay with that version of love then go for it. But honestly you don't sound very happy about it. He might love you the best he can, but is that good enough for you/ what you feel you deserve in life? No? then keep it moving. You can't change others, you can only change yourself.
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