Sugarkane Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Ones like my ex who NEVER once said that they were unhappy at all. Then they just dump you out of the blue. Then hilariously my ex said that I was the one that couldn't communicate! He ridiciously also dumped me by text. How does that make him superior at communicating?
Author Sugarkane Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 He also said dthat I have no social skills. But couldn't even dump me in person. Just dumped me completely out of the blue, no answers and went full NC on me. Was this guy dodgy or what?
Kodo Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 It's frustrating how someone else's immaturity and inability to define and express themselves can create so much hassle for others.
plasma Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Ones like my ex who NEVER once said that they were unhappy at all. Then they just dump you out of the blue. Then hilariously my ex said that I was the one that couldn't communicate! He ridiciously also dumped me by text. How does that make him superior at communicating? before i spew my thoughts on this how old are you guys, im 35 sounds immature, BUT not everyone can communicate in a convo all the time myself included, just dont get swept away in texting, need some human contact with each other, i wouldnt deem any actions as VALID until you see each other more.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 I'm afraid actions speak louder than words. I went full NC and my ex never contacted me once. My ex was really that immature and he's a year older than me! I'm the dumpee, so I'm not going to be the first one to contact him. He was extremely callous to me and verbally abusive to me when we brokeup. Kodo here is my story: www.loveshack.org/forums/t261358 I deserve so much better than someone pulling a 180 on me. And guess what? 2 weeks after we brokeup I saw my ex already with another girl. He didn't wait long did he? My ex had no gulit AT ALL. I wouldn't get back with this assclown if he got down on his hands and knees and begged me back.
Kodo Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I wouldn't get back with this assclown if he got down on his hands and knees and begged me back. Hold onto that anger and use it. I've read your story briefly and looked at a few comments. quite frankly this guy has issues. He's wasted an opportunity and rather than sit down and calculate something, it looks like he'll just blindly trial and error things until he finds something that fits. Poor way to go about solving your issues in day to day life. It's very clear that you were quite commited and while it doesn't help now, it will help you in the future when things start changing for better. He doesn't know what he wants. Changes goals all the time. I knew someone just like him not too long ago...
The Great Gazoo Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 It's frustrating how someone else's immaturity and inability to define and express themselves can create so much hassle for others. Amen brother
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