lalalandman Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 GF of 5 years broke it off like 2-3 weeks ago. All I can think about is how retarded she is. We last talked on Sunday and she told me to move on for good and it will never work out. So I said screw it, fine, I respect your dumb decision. I even got in an argument with her mom because she said her daughter will never talk to me again and I told her she was wrong. Mom hung up on me. I spend like a week to two trying to convince her but she's dumb. She even said she doesn't love me and I told her she's dumb and stop throwing lies around. So girls, honestly, why the hell do you say stupid crap and do stupid crap? And why do you always get forgiven for anything and everything but us guys can't. And why are you allowed to walk back into our lives whenever, even after you say stupid crap like I don't love you and we'll never ever work out? Why are you dumb?
RareBreed Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 "why are you dumb?" Lmaooo I LOL'd hard at that. I don't think women are dumb, but the way they handle certain breakup situations are though. I always laugh at the ones who say "I never loved you" haha. Hopefully the women here don't eat you alive after reading this lmao
ilovedhim Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Because you make us crazy!!!! You don't know what you want! Why can't you just say how you feel? Wahts with the macho crap. Seriously, are you my ex?
Author lalalandman Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 Because we're men and the only times we "feel" anything is in bed. No but really, we did have a really rough last few weeks. Which sucks, but whatever because everyone has their bad times. She's stupid. I even told her she's going to wake up one day and feel STUPID. Probably wasn't a good idea but I turned into an a**hole when she turned her back on me.
Author lalalandman Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 I love her and she knows it. Guys show how we feel. And it's been a rough past month in that department. I understand why she wants to go, but seriously, she's dumb. I guess things need to cool down, but honestly, I would die for this dumb dumb girl
WTRanger Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I don't know. Continuing to pursue someone when they tell you that it's over, it won't work, and you should move on sounds pretty retarded to me. Exploding on her and her mom pretty much takes the taco of stupidity. Look at your own dumb actions before you start judging others. It'll help you along in life and your overall happiness.
Fedor Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 When the going gets tough or when they dont get what they want, they tend to fail you.
bentnotbroken Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I would say the same reason men don't have balls. One silly statement to match another. And the term "retarded" usually reflects the person using it. I get you are pissed and want to vent...don't lump all women in one group because I have yet to find one group all men fit into.
sun_moon Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Please let us know when you have passed your anger and denial stage, I guess some people phase differently than others...some people get sad first ...some get angry first we can all venture to guess your LIVID. I'm not offended by your generalist comments because we all know your hurting and losing your mind.
Author lalalandman Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 yes all very true. This is my angry day. Obviously I did some dumb things myself. I'm not perfect. Wish I didn't yell at her mom. Just....really upset.
coltsfan1 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 first off women handle things so VERY different than we do, but you have pushed her to the extreme.. It must be bad if her mother got involved, just STOP talking to her. You won't even respect her decision to leave. But believe me I have been in your shoes, best thing to do is get ghost. Just disappear from her life. In 4-5 months you will know if she is over it or just going through some issue.
Frank13 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Because you make us crazy!!!! You don't know what you want! Why can't you just say how you feel? I could say this exact same thing about women I have known!
69ways Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Because you make us crazy!!!! You don't know what you want! Why can't you just say how you feel? Wahts with the macho crap. Seriously, are you my ex? I did and got its to late and you should had been in love with me from day 1 like i was.....
marqueemoon4 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 this is kinda funny cause on the dadsdivorce website they refer to ex wives as NJs, as in nut jobs.
yolatanga Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 GF of 5 years broke it off like 2-3 weeks ago. All I can think about is how retarded she is. We last talked on Sunday and she told me to move on for good and it will never work out. So I said screw it, fine, I respect your dumb decision. I even got in an argument with her mom because she said her daughter will never talk to me again and I told her she was wrong. Mom hung up on me. I spend like a week to two trying to convince her but she's dumb. She even said she doesn't love me and I told her she's dumb and stop throwing lies around. So girls, honestly, why the hell do you say stupid crap and do stupid crap? And why do you always get forgiven for anything and everything but us guys can't. And why are you allowed to walk back into our lives whenever, even after you say stupid crap like I don't love you and we'll never ever work out? Why are you dumb? How old are you? Sounds like she was tired of your immaturity.
HeavenOrHell Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 (edited) Cos we have to deal with men like you. Stop generalising. Men can act dumb too and hurt women. It happens, it's life, deal with it. GF of 5 years broke it off like 2-3 weeks ago. All I can think about is how retarded she is. We last talked on Sunday and she told me to move on for good and it will never work out. So I said screw it, fine, I respect your dumb decision. I even got in an argument with her mom because she said her daughter will never talk to me again and I told her she was wrong. Mom hung up on me. I spend like a week to two trying to convince her but she's dumb. She even said she doesn't love me and I told her she's dumb and stop throwing lies around. So girls, honestly, why the hell do you say stupid crap and do stupid crap? And why do you always get forgiven for anything and everything but us guys can't. And why are you allowed to walk back into our lives whenever, even after you say stupid crap like I don't love you and we'll never ever work out? Why are you dumb? Edited May 19, 2011 by HeavenOrHell
Sugarkane Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I'd like to know why men are nutjobs. Can you tell me?
plasma Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 GF of 5 years broke it off like 2-3 weeks ago. All I can think about is how retarded she is. We last talked on Sunday and she told me to move on for good and it will never work out. So I said screw it, fine, I respect your dumb decision. I even got in an argument with her mom because she said her daughter will never talk to me again and I told her she was wrong. Mom hung up on me. I spend like a week to two trying to convince her but she's dumb. She even said she doesn't love me and I told her she's dumb and stop throwing lies around. So girls, honestly, why the hell do you say stupid crap and do stupid crap? And why do you always get forgiven for anything and everything but us guys can't. And why are you allowed to walk back into our lives whenever, even after you say stupid crap like I don't love you and we'll never ever work out? Why are you dumb? i was in a relationship for 5 years, its going to take you 7 months -12 to get a grip... right now you need a grip on yourself not reying to figure her out, i say this because i been there !!!!
sun_moon Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Hey can you tell us when your done being angry? You sound like my ex, short fused. I ask bc I'm curious about how long he's going to hold on to resenting me and being angry.
HeavenOrHell Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 PS My partner left me after 18 years and ended up with a friend of mine (which I predicted). I went through several months of hell and never thought I would come through it, but I did, and am with someone else now, and good friends with my ex still, he didn't cheat on me or treat badly, so I was lucky in that respect, but he was the love of my life and it was the worst time of my life when he left. You'll come through it, but anger doesn't help nor does name calling or self pity, I had plenty of the latter and it really does not help. Cos we have to deal with men like you. Stop generalising. Men can act dumb too and hurt women. It happens, it's life, deal with it.
nessaaa Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 LMAO this thread made me laugh hard. It's your fault she's dumb, everything is your fault.
Author lalalandman Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 I pretty much agree with most that has been said. I know I'm the real retard. I hope I didn't offend any people. Basically, I'm upset. And the only thing I can control is myself. This situation sucks.
2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Because you make us crazy!!!! You don't know what you want! Why can't you just say how you feel? Wahts with the macho crap. Seriously, are you my ex? My EX accused me of being emotional after I let her know how I felt!!! So much for why can't you just say how you feel. 2011
Strength of Heart Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 One thing I always say when people make gender specific comments is that everyone is different, the gender really does not matter. Gender specific comments are stupid, unless it's about the differences in bodies lol
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