ilovedhim Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Im going through such a terrible time. I miss my ex. Today I took a friend out for drinks on her birthday and called my ex when I left her. I hung up when he answered. He called back, I didn't answer. So he text me what this is all about. I text him back that I'm sorry and it won't happen again. What do I do? I miss hi so much and sometimes wonder why we couldn't make it work.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 I should add that I'm drunk and called him from one of my phones he recentlycalled me on.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 He just text me again that I'm stupid and that this was the best I could say to him. What do I say to him? That I'm stupidly, madly in love with him? That I suck at relationships and wish we didn't have crappy luck? What do I say? That I wish we can try again? Or just continue NC until I commit suicide?
Author ilovedhim Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 Ok I just text him back that I'm a drunken idiot and I'm going to kill myself. I'm going to bed before I make more of a fool of myself. What a day.
smudge21 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Stay off the drink, or at least understand that when you do drink it brings all emotions to the surface and you will do stupid things like this, so hide your phone! I can bet you hang around with friends, have a great time, and then when they're gone you're alone again and he's the first thought. I'm the same with my ex. Can have great days, keep busy, and then when nothing is happening I think of her, and miss her. It's perfectly normal. I don't know the solution, maybe just keeping busy. Drunk texting isn't the solution though - you'll only regret whatever you say and you'll never heal whilst you're still contacting him. There's no quick fix, only time is your healer. Time and no contact. You need both right now.
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