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I wouldn't care one bit if my partner was a web-cam model.

 

Hell, I'd be pretty proud of it. I'd probably brag to the guys, too. "My lady is hot enough that people pay to see her!" That's pretty freakin' awesome.

 

And honestly, I don't care about people's jobs. Not one bit. Whatever you do to get paid, then do it. I'm just happy that she makes her own money.

 

And now that I think of it, I might not even care if she was a stripper at a strip club. I can't say for sure because I might be different if the actual situation arose, but I want to believe I wouldn't care. As long as I was certain she wasn't giving guys bjs or whatever in the backroom but just did her stripping/dances then I'd be fine with it.

 

I guess I'm not really judgemental...

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With all due respect Ross, "2 cents" from someone who admits he'd have no issue with his sister feeling she had no choice but to do porn or be on a webcam, doesn't mean all that much. Most siblings would want more for their female siblings, would not even be able to imagine them feeling so desperate that that was their only option in life. Appalling.

 

And with all due respect. 2 cents from someone who has twisted values and morals from religion, doesn't mean all that much either.

 

So this is where you put words in my mouth and try to shame me is it? Is this the only way you can try and win an argment?

 

This is quite a common trait in christians/religious people.

 

I never said I would have no issue with her feeling she had no choice but to do porn or be on webcam.

 

Re-read the post.

 

I never said that I wouldn't want more for my siblings.

 

Re-read the post.

 

I never never said that I imagine any of my siblings feeling so desperate that that was their only action in life.

 

Re-read the post.

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I just wanted to point out that YES, webcam shows absolutely can be recorded. There are whole websites devoted to swapping these videos of webcam shows among men. I know because my friend broke up with her boyfriend over this crap when she found all the videos he was recording of his webcam sessions and the websites. (He seemed to have a real problem with that and porn to an excessive degree.)

 

i blocked certain places in the uk so its highly doubtful that my son will ever see it. its been years since ive done it and no one has ever said anything about it or found any videos. i was under a diffent name also. if someones going to go to the trouble of searching millions of porn videos until they find one that looks like me and then purposely send it to my son in about 10 years then that makes them a total scum bag. its highly doubtful that they would find it anyway. also my accounts been deleted.

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i blocked certain places in the uk so its highly doubtful that my son will ever see it. its been years since ive done it and no one has ever said anything about it or found any videos. i was under a diffent name also. if someones going to go to the trouble of searching millions of porn videos until they find one that looks like me and then purposely send it to my son in about 10 years then that makes them a total scum bag. its highly doubtful that they would find it anyway. also my accounts been deleted.

 

The chances of him finding it are negligible. And even if he does I'm sure he wouldn't mind once you tell him the reason you had to do it :)

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I'm in a dinky little town so not many options here. Mostly I work from home with computer related things and design. But it doesn't bring in alot.

 

I don't think I could ask my guy for help. I'm sure he'd be willing but I just can't bring myself to do it. If things get that bad, I'll sell my house first. But you do have a point that he probably wouldn't like it. And I couldn't do it without letting him know. I don't want to ruin that relationship.

 

 

if he finds out you started selling pics of yourself on the internet rather than asking him for help, he'll leave you. i would.

 

we only have signals from you women to go by. that signal would tell me that she's keeping her distance because she has made up her mind that she's ready to find someone else. and i better leave her before she leaves me, or i'm gonna be the one who winds up more upset about it.

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The chances of him finding it are negligible. And even if he does I'm sure he wouldn't mind once you tell him the reason you had to do it :)

 

thanks , tbh i really dont see the big deal about it. i did it a few years ago just to get by. i earned abit to help then stopped. its not like its illegal :)

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I wouldn't mind. I don't judge people by the job they do.

 

I hope these would be or ex webcam models can display that same mentality they wish from others.

I somehow doubt it though.

 

Oh LS. A woman having sex before X number of dates, or having Y number of partners and she is damaged goods, a slut, gross. But a webcam model, cool!!! :laugh:

 

I'd much rather be involved with a girl who is a webcam model than a girl that's had 50 knobs in her!

 

 

Also a massive, massive laugh for those claiming there's no other type of work than being a webcam model for a woman... especially in the UK or USA of all places!!!

You've obviously not travelled the world much.

 

Be thankful that as a woman you have an opportunity to earn that sort of money doing such work!

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if he finds out you started selling pics of yourself on the internet rather than asking him for help, he'll leave you. i would.

 

we only have signals from you women to go by. that signal would tell me that she's keeping her distance because she has made up her mind that she's ready to find someone else. and i better leave her before she leaves me, or i'm gonna be the one who winds up more upset about it.

I think you're right about the leaving me part. And I wouldn't blame him for that. Though I would never do this behind his back to start with.

 

Women are often accused of using a man for his money. It's very difficult - actually impossible - for me to ask for help. I just can't bring myself to do it. We've got a long way to go (if ever) before I reach that comfort level.

 

I'm just glad I don't have to resort to either option.

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it's kind of an all or nothing conversation if you have it with him though. if you tell him you're thinking about doing that he's going to offer to give you money to help. if you refuse you're back at square one, just as if you had done it without telling him.

 

fwiw that's why i don't really believe in ducking and dodging money issues. it goes without saying that most women i date have far less money than me. i'm pretty honest up front about what i think about it. yeah, i have money. no i don't mind helping you if you need money, within reason, even while we're just dating. i don't see giving a woman a few bucks for clothes or gas or other such day to day things any differently than paying for dinners. but the necessity that arises from that is being very honest much sooner than normal about what we think of each other and what our intentions are, so that no one gets the wrong impression.

 

he very well may have a completely different moral outlook about money. that's why i don't think it's ever really too soon to have those conversations.

 

it's worth thinking about.

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Gross. This whole thread, just gross.

 

in what way?

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i blocked certain places in the uk so its highly doubtful that my son will ever see it. its been years since ive done it and no one has ever said anything about it or found any videos. i was under a diffent name also. if someones going to go to the trouble of searching millions of porn videos until they find one that looks like me and then purposely send it to my son in about 10 years then that makes them a total scum bag. its highly doubtful that they would find it anyway. also my accounts been deleted.

 

Well, I wasn't implying that someone would send it to your son or he would find it as that is really improbable. Just pointing that out for others who might be considering this line of work because their image is likely to be out there on the 'net for, well, forever, and some people, even if they would webcam, might not be comfortable with that.

 

I'm sure your son will never find out unless someone who knows you and knows about the modeling tells him. And yes, they would be evil for doing such a thing.

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i blocked certain places in the uk so its highly doubtful that my son will ever see it. its been years since ive done it and no one has ever said anything about it or found any videos. i was under a diffent name also. if someones going to go to the trouble of searching millions of porn videos until they find one that looks like me and then purposely send it to my son in about 10 years then that makes them a total scum bag. its highly doubtful that they would find it anyway. also my accounts been deleted.

If you are not ashamed of what you did then why are you scared about telling your son :rolleyes:

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If you are not ashamed of what you did then why are you scared about telling your son :rolleyes:

 

because hes 6 lol ,and just because hes my son doesnt mean he has to know the ins and outs of my life. i wouldnt discuss my sex life with him either

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If you are not ashamed of what you did then why are you scared about telling your son :rolleyes:

I'm not ashamed of having sex in the middle of a ballfield one night with my husband, but I've never told my son about it and I'd be dang embarassed if he found out. :rolleyes:

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I'm not ashamed of having sex in the middle of a ballfield one night with my husband, but I've never told my son about it and I'd be dang embarassed if he found out. :rolleyes:

 

theres just some things that kids should never know about there parents :)

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because hes 6 lol ,and just because hes my son doesnt mean he has to know the ins and outs of my life. i wouldnt discuss my sex life with him either

How easy it is to twist what I am saying. I am not talking about him finding out now when he is 6 yrs old. Hell even if he saw you naked on top of the mailman he wouldn't know what it means. I am talking about when he is older. If what you did is absolutely fine then let him know that and see what he thinks about it. If he thinks you did right then good for you. If not then try to convince him about how terrible it was when you did it but when he actually agrees with you that it was in fact a terrible and wrong thing to do something like that please get defensive about it again and tell him you did him a favor because you made money for him so that he could eat and not be at grandma's with mental issues :rolleyes:

 

I'm not ashamed of having sex in the middle of a ballfield one night with my husband, but I've never told my son about it and I'd be dang embarassed if he found out. :rolleyes:

So did you get paid for that ;)

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How easy it is to twist what I am saying. I am not talking about him finding out now when he is 6 yrs old. Hell even if he saw you naked on top of the mailman he wouldn't know what it means. I am talking about when he is older. If what you did is absolutely fine then let him know that and see what he thinks about it. If he thinks you did right then good for you. If not then try to convince him about how terrible it was when you did it but when he actually agrees with you that it was in fact a terrible and wrong thing to do something like that please get defensive about it again and tell him you did him a favor because you made money for him so that he could eat and not be at grandma's with mental issues :rolleyes:

 

 

So did you get paid for that ;)

 

i was joking hence the lol after it. also i dont see the point in telling him he doesnt need to know everything about me. Theres many other things in my life that i probably wont tell him about too. I did what i did ,so what im over it and theres nothing wrong with it, its legal. I admitted it wasnt for me. Not many people do talk about sexual things with there sons or daughters. i highly doubt my son will ever find out, i dont see the point in telling him. also im sure ill have better things to talk about in the future. what would be the point of sitting him down at 20 years old and saying look son about 16 years ago i worked as a webcam performer for about 8 months? that wouldnt gain anything really

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i was joking hence the lol after it. also i dont see the point in telling him he doesnt need to know everything about me. Theres many other things in my life that i probably wont tell him about too. I did what i did ,so what im over it and theres nothing wrong with it, its legal. I admitted it wasnt for me. Not many people do talk about sexual things with there sons or daughters. i highly doubt my son will ever find out, i dont see the point in telling him. also im sure ill have better things to talk about in the future. what would be the point of sitting him down at 20 years old and saying look son about 16 years ago i worked as a webcam performer for about 8 months? that wouldnt gain anything really

But talking with your son about your profession is something that most parents do. In your case it's being a cyber prostitute. So you are implying that I am asking you to tell him about your sex escapades. If today I am a software engineer and down the road I become a businessman I will tell my children when they grow up that I used to work as an IT guy and trust me I wouldn't have any shame telling him that.

 

But of course I am not going to tell him in what position I shagged his mother to conceive him :) I hope you get the difference.

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But talking with your son about your profession is something that most parents do. In your case it's being a cyber prostitute. So you are implying that I am asking you to tell him about your sex escapades. If today I am a software engineer and down the road I become a businessman I will tell my children when they grow up that I used to work as an IT guy and trust me I wouldn't have any shame telling him that.

 

But of course I am not going to tell him in what position I shagged his mother to conceive him :) I hope you get the difference.

 

its unimportant really i did it breifly and didnt like it. I would never go back. As i didnt like it, its to do with sexual things and to be honest i wont be discussing my sexual experiences or the job as its not something you really discuss with your son. I didnt see it as you say as being a cyber prostitute. i did it because i couldnt get a job anywhere else and it paid.

 

now im doing things that i feel are worthwhile and actually make a difference so thats the sort of thing id discuss with him. Not some brief job i did a few years ago that i had no intention in staying in. Its unimportant.

 

I dont feel ashamed about anything nor should i as im a good person and im helping to make a difference now. Ive bettered myself. Tbh it wasnt really a thing i would have ever thought of doing but i was desperate to not go back to my mums so i did it.

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One look at me and a model if any kind would run for the hills

 

its not always about what you look like , if your a good person it makes you attractive :)

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its unimportant really i did it breifly and didnt like it. I would never go back. As i didnt like it, its to do with sexual things and to be honest i wont be discussing my sexual experiences or the job as its not something you really discuss with your son. I didnt see it as you say as being a cyber prostitute. i did it because i couldnt get a job anywhere else and it paid.

 

now im doing things that i feel are worthwhile and actually make a difference so thats the sort of thing id discuss with him. Not some brief job i did a few years ago that i had no intention in staying in. Its unimportant.

 

I dont feel ashamed about anything nor should i as im a good person and im helping to make a difference now. Ive bettered myself. Tbh it wasnt really a thing i would have ever thought of doing but i was desperate to not go back to my mums so i did it.

Admit it. You don't want to (actually can't) tell your son because what you did was wrong. Morally indecent and something that you should be ashamed of. It looked like you were but now you are defending yourself like you did the greatest thing in the world.

 

You say you have bettered yourself. So you mean that you were not a better person when you were a e-ho?

 

You still fail to answer what you would have done if you were not capable of being a web cam model apart from taking your son to your mom's house. And I can't even begin to imagine what kind of a man your bf is.

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its not always about what you look like , if your a good person it makes you attractive :)

 

Absolutely, and having some confidence that you are worthy or attractive (or confidence in some positive attribute) can be very attractive, too.

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Admit it. You don't want to (actually can't) tell your son because what you did was wrong. Morally indecent and something that you should be ashamed of.

 

Johnny, Why not get down off your moral high horse and just agree to disagree?

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Johnny, Why not get down off your moral high horse and just agree to disagree?

 

im not talking about it anymore whats done is done. this thread wasnt supposed to be about me lol

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sure it does if you look good

 

everyones different, some people might not find you attractive whereas other people will :)

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