perfectlyunique Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 A lot of them are married as well. Truly sad. ive been one, im not sad just got into the wrong thing, i regret it and hated every minute, everyone makes mistakes. those without sin cast the first stone n all that ....my bf knew about it we got in a bad situation Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Probably pressured into it. I think he was talking about the men being married. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 ive been one, im not sad just got into the wrong thing, i regret it and hated every minute, everyone makes mistakes. those without sin cast the first stone n all that ....my bf knew about it we got in a bad situation I've never seen women who are part of the sex trade as sad. Hey, if you've gotta make money, you've gotta make money. And if you actually don't mind doing it, aren't desperate for money, and you're just doing it to make a lot of money. That's cool too. Nothing wrong with it. Link to post Share on other sites
perfectlyunique Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 I've never seen women who are part of the sex trade as sad. Hey, if you've gotta make money, you've gotta make money. And if you actually don't mind doing it, aren't desperate for money, and you're just doing it to make a lot of money. That's cool too. Nothing wrong with it. personally i hated every minute of it, but if you enjoy it why not Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 and I was talking about those men being pressured into their marriages thus explaining their extracurricular behavior. What is the difference between a man getting married in hopes of sexual fulfillment and women who marries a man who they think they can mold to fit their needs? Everyone is technically pressured, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 personally i hated every minute of it, but if you enjoy it why not If I enjoy what? Watching women on webcam? I'm not interested, comes across as a bit crap to me. Link to post Share on other sites
fishtaco Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Relationships, dating, and marriages are non-sexual services men pay for in hopes of fulfilling sexual desires. It's not often I run across someone that's even more jaded than I am. Link to post Share on other sites
perfectlyunique Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 and I was talking about those men being pressured into their marriages thus explaining their extracurricular behavior. really though marriage is only someone signing abit of paper , people get easily divorced nowadays i dont think that men can use the excuse i was forced into marriage and this is why im acting like i am rubbish ....marriage means nothing to people nowadays. which is why im not bothering to get married..i love my bf , he loves me, signing abit of paper means naff all. in fact marriage is all about the look at me factor who has the best dress, most people attending, best venue..etc etc Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus One Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Thanks for all the feedback. I just got back from having my finances looked at, and though I need to be careful, I'm good for now. I made an error that made things look worse than what it actually was. Whew! Though I did get a shocked look when upon hearing the news I burst out with "Oh, thank god! Now I don't have to be a webcam model!" But perhaps you could use this as a wake-up call to improve your finances anyway. It's generally not the best of strategies to not create a financial buffer for hard(er) times. Link to post Share on other sites
welikeincrowds Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Dating one now. I met her before she started web camming, but she was already an exotic dancer. It's pretty bland actually. :lmao: Yeah, I can imagine. Webcam models aren't very exciting to watch either. Well, I have to admit I haven't ever given one a chance. I guess I just don't really see the appeal. Although now that I think of it, it would probably be pretty entertaining to get a complete butt-naked stranger who is probably in a different country to do ridiculous **** on a camera. "OK baby, now do 10 pushups. Mmmm, yeah. Great form." I don't know, I'd have to think about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Would you date a web cam model? No........ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jazzari Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 But perhaps you could use this as a wake-up call to improve your finances anyway. It's generally not the best of strategies to not create a financial buffer for hard(er) times.The wake up call came a long time ago. And I would love to have that buffer. I just need to keep trying, though I'm hopeful that some investments will pay off in a few years. But I'm being smart and not depending on it. Link to post Share on other sites
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Yes I would. She's not having sex on camera, she's just getting naked. Nothing wrong there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jazzari Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 How did you come across this "opportunity" you no longer need? Help Wanted ads. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jazzari Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 Where were these ads?Craigs List and most job hunting sites. LiveJasmin is the one I see most often. Maybe what I should do is become an affiliate. Link to post Share on other sites
fishtaco Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Craigs List and most job hunting sites. LiveJasmin is the one I see most often. Maybe what I should do is become an affiliate. I want to be the talent scout. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelsgoodman Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Would I date a woman who, instead of working an honest job, chooses to put her private parts on display for millions of horny dudes to jerk off to? Hell yes!! A woman like that sounds like a real keeper!!! Not only would I date her, I'd take her to meet my parents right way. Can you imagine the dinner table conversation? "So, Jazzari what do you do for a living?" "Umm...well...I do stuff with computers!" Or lunchtime discussion at the office..."Hey dude, I was checking out your woman on the internets the other day...dayuumm!! Look at dem tities!!!" Hell, a woman like that is someone I'd want to marry and have kids with! I'm sure the juniors would be real proud to find out what their mom does for a living...maybe we could even incorporate some of that webcam footage into a family video! I find it hilarious that the OP makes it sound as if she had to choose between being a virtual stripper and starving to death. The US imports millions of workers from third world countries to do jobs that average Americans think they are too good for. Apparently, being a "webcam model" is considered more "dignified" than working at McDonald's or Walmart (and you can get a job like that anywhere in the country, including the crappy little town that the OP lives in). Heck, if money is real tight, get two McJobs (I know several single mom who support themselves AND their kids that way), cut down your expenses, find a roommate (or even move in with your parents). Sure, your footwear collection would suffer, but at least your dignity would not...if that's worth anything to you, of course. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Oh LS. A woman having sex before X number of dates, or having Y number of partners and she is damaged goods, a slut, gross. But a webcam model, cool!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fastone Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Jazzari, I wouldn't have any problem with my girlfriend being a webcam model. If she wanted to do it, I would support her 100%. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Is web cam model a euphemism for live masturbation porn? Or is it just like, having your webcam on and having them watch you do whatever (cook dinner, paint your toes, etc.)? I'm just not familiar with the terminology... Link to post Share on other sites
Jynxx Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Craigs List and most job hunting sites. LiveJasmin is the one I see most often. Maybe what I should do is become an affiliate. I would date a webcam model without any kind of doubt, but I would seriously have doubts dating an internet affiliate. I've worked with alot of them and still do and all but a few are the scum of the earth, they're the greediest sons of bitches I've ever met, none of them seem to have any ethics and in general they're people I don't like to be around if I didn't need to. The world would be a much better place if they all just disappeared. Then again, there's a demand and money to be made so a new generation of snakeoil salesmen would fill the void and continue ****ing up the internet. Link to post Share on other sites
perfectlyunique Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Would I date a woman who, instead of working an honest job, chooses to put her private parts on display for millions of horny dudes to jerk off to? Hell yes!! A woman like that sounds like a real keeper!!! Not only would I date her, I'd take her to meet my parents right way. Can you imagine the dinner table conversation? "So, Jazzari what do you do for a living?" "Umm...well...I do stuff with computers!" Or lunchtime discussion at the office..."Hey dude, I was checking out your woman on the internets the other day...dayuumm!! Look at dem tities!!!" Hell, a woman like that is someone I'd want to marry and have kids with! I'm sure the juniors would be real proud to find out what their mom does for a living...maybe we could even incorporate some of that webcam footage into a family video! I find it hilarious that the OP makes it sound as if she had to choose between being a virtual stripper and starving to death. The US imports millions of workers from third world countries to do jobs that average Americans think they are too good for. Apparently, being a "webcam model" is considered more "dignified" than working at McDonald's or Walmart (and you can get a job like that anywhere in the country, including the crappy little town that the OP lives in). Heck, if money is real tight, get two McJobs (I know several single mom who support themselves AND their kids that way), cut down your expenses, find a roommate (or even move in with your parents). Sure, your footwear collection would suffer, but at least your dignity would not...if that's worth anything to you, of course. just because someone is a webcam model in no way does it make them a bad person. i used to be one when i was struggling for money. i regretted it yes but now i help families with kids and im going to be helping families with disabled kids also, i think that says a lot about the type of person i am. i care . i only did the webcam modelling bebcause i wasnt flexible enough to get any other job and its easy to do that as its in your home and you could do it whenever you want. i did stop doing it and im volunteering and doing courses. There are hardly any jobs out there at the minute. there are 1.4 million people claiming jobseekers and not enough jobs to go round. sometimes you cant be picky Link to post Share on other sites
Rinnix Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Id be most frightened about people recognizing my partner from the videos. Not to mention, if you do wish to work a different job later on, if the employer happens to recognize you, you won't land the position. This can cause more problems in the future for finding a decent career. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Craigs List and most job hunting sites. LiveJasmin is the one I see most often. Maybe what I should do is become an affiliate. LiveJasmin is the one I see most, but I can't quite bring myself to part with any money as (for my tastes) there's enough free, recorded, porn readily available. Link to post Share on other sites
perfectlyunique Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Feelsgoodman wasn't saying webcammodels were "bad" people. Just pointing out the moral downside. Lots of women are unemployed but don't see the need to take their clothes off for money, so I don't buy that. its still pays though. im not proud of it but we didnt have enough coming in and i had a little boy. it managed to put food on the table and because of that im not ashamed of doing it. i wouldnt go back to doing it because yer its not exactly a great job to do, also if it was so bad why do the jobcentre advertise them jobs on there systems. i did my best to provide for my child, theres nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt have gotten into it if it wasnt for my patners job messing him about. Although i never put it on my C.V. There was never a chance of people you know finding out as you can block places. My child will never find out, personally i dont think i did anything wrong. Wether the job is discusting to people i dont care, my little boy got to eat and had things he needed ..hes my responisbility. It wasnt a great situation to be in and i will never ever go back because i believe im better than that but it helped at the time Link to post Share on other sites
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