Dust Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Some guys can't either. I use to spend too much time on a nudity board. True. Men who judge women will sound crazy as well.
Kari Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 OP you mentioned stretch marks, Cocoa Butter works wonders. If you use it, they should be gone within 1-2 months.
Darren Taylor Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Insecure women are the worst. At my last job, there was this girl I'm pretty sure was interested. She literally looked like a model straight out of a magazine. Only problem is I overheard her talking and she said she wanted to lose some weight. I was instantly put off.
Rinnix Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Insecure women are the worst. At my last job, there was this girl I'm pretty sure was interested. She literally looked like a model straight out of a magazine. Only problem is I overheard her talking and she said she wanted to lose some weight. I was instantly put off. Media is really hard on women, we constantly feel pressured to be thinner, have better clothes and great makeup. We need to start accepting who we are.
Dust Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Media is really hard on women, we constantly feel pressured to be thinner, have better clothes and great makeup. We need to start accepting who we are. I feel like women parrot that crap out. Media smedia enough excuses. You women buy the products that run the adds so stop complaining. Make your own destiny regardless of what any one tells you. Be yourself.
Rinnix Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 That's what this thread needed. Rinnix's care bear care power. Sending hugs your way
Darren Taylor Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Media is really hard on women, we constantly feel pressured to be thinner, have better clothes and great makeup. We need to start accepting who we are. Doesn't mean you have to give in. Insecurity and low self-esteem are huge turnoffs.
Rinnix Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I agree which is why I mentioned we need to accept who we are. However, it was worth mentioning as I think it may be apart of the OPs pressures. I find beauty within physical flaws.
somedude81 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 (edited) Media is really hard on women, we constantly feel pressured to be thinner, have better clothes and great makeup. We need to start accepting who we are. Men go though the exact same thing. Tv and movies are full of ruggedly good looking guys who are totally ripped. But how often do you hear men complaining about that? Women are too easily influenced. BTW getting a body like Vin or Rocky is so much harder than just staying thin. Edited May 18, 2011 by somedude81
Rinnix Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Men go though the exact same thing. Tv and movies are full of ruggedly good looking guys who are totally ripped. But how often do you hear men complaining about that? Women are too easily influenced. BTW getting a body like Vin or Rocky is so much harder than just staying thin. I know that men have expectations as well. I do wish that the media would send out a more positive message instead. .. Am I the only person who isn't attracted to overly muscular?
jkl6158 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 My ex-bf and I were together for almost 5 years. We broke up on one occasion during that time and then eventually for good. The reason in large part? He loved me to death but couldn't deal with how insecure I was about myself. He thought I was beautiful, brilliant, etc. I didn't see it though. My constant belittling myself and fishing for complements from him (since he could see right through what I was semi-consciously doing) eventually pushed him away. I'd work on accepting yourself because insecurity is NOT attractive, regardless of if you are or aren't.
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