newborn25 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Its has been 1.5 years since I have broke up with my ex. Yes, it has been a long time but I still keep thinking about her. Almost everyday. I do go on dates with other girls but somehow I will compare them with my ex. I know this is wrong but sometimes I have trouble controlling my thoughts. Its affecting my dating life I guess most will ask me to go NC and cut off all contact with her but I really hate to lose this current friendship with her. I am grateful and appreciate what we had before but at the same time, I do not want to waste any more time and effort thinking of her everyday, someone who may never reciprocrate. Its mentally exhausting and it sucks to go through this over and and over again. Is there anyway I can maintain a friendship with her but at the same time not having her in my mind all the time. How can I treat her as a normal friend without any special feelings?
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