whoknowswhattodo Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I got a text from the ex asking how I would let someone post something so mean on her fb wall? She said you better be glad your phone was off or I would have yelled your ear off. She is now back with her ex and the friend that did the so called post told me that someone hacked them and did the same thing to several people, they knew nothing about it and was in bed because all of this took place at like 2 or 3 in the morning. All I did was text her back saying if your going to be rude don't contact me, I had nothing to do with any of it. Now even though she cheated on me with her ex her mother is texting me telling me I'm a terrible person. Now the mother is also saying that she is glad I will be gone from their lives forever. I have not responded to any of her ranting. Because I don't even know what was said and really don't care what was said. I just don't understand how they would think I would do something like that? Her mother said that about her former ex when I was with her daughter. I don't understand why I miss her so much and still very much in love with her, even though all of this has happened? How did I handle this situation? Any idea of what might happen next? My ex also texted me that she hates me because I told her mother that we had sex but the other boy took her virginity and that's why she dumped me on that day. Because that was the day she lost it it him. Her mother just called me a liar. I'm just not going lie to cover for her anymore. It didn't seem to bother her in the past that her parents hated the other boy and the things her and her mother said about him are now directed towards me. Is there any hope that we will get back together in the future. Everyones thoughts please
Kari Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I would just continue NC. There is no point in causing drama for yourself. You told her that you had nothing to do with it, thats it. Why is she getting her mother involved in her relationships to that extent? How old are you two? At this point, getting back together shouldn't be the first thing on your list. I would just resume to NC and move on. Best of luck.
Chi townD Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Run....Run fast and far! Sooner or later they're gonna figure out that people were hacked into and they're gonna be the ones feeling like complete idiots. Not you. NC.... there are tons of girls out there that don't play half of these games and don't get their mothers involved.
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