orion1010 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 And then keep it going. I seen threads on here tearing women down on being slutty. Alright thats cool you don't like sluts. Now threads on here about women not being slutty enough!?!? Really? That being said. I will be the first to say. sex don't matter. Its fun but it don't. Just gotta ask yourselves a real good question. If you end up choosing between two people. One is only raw sexual desire and the other raw personality desire. Which one would you rather be with forever? Cant have both and no in betweens and yes scenarios like this exist in real life. Well, if I could still please myself, I would choose raw personality desire. That way I can have orgasams and have the best mate ever!
mr.dream merchant Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Why are we assuming there's no in between? As if a woman can only be a loose ass easy slut or a prude as **** annoying run-away-from-the-dick virgin. Easy women? No thanks. They'll only make it as far as my dick goes in her cavities. A woman who respects herself and only opens up after knowing a guy for a reasonable amount of time? Now that's my girl right there.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 This thread's title is funny. As if I, or other guys who struggle with dating, have a choice between "sluts" or "no sluts." Right now, we'd be happy with a living, breathing girl in our arms.
Titania22 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I think i'd be less inclined to date a girl who looked like they slept around a lot than a girl who actually HAD slept around a lot You know, I would rather look like a girl who slept around lots, than be a girl who did sleep around alot. Wearing cute outfits is alot of fun, feeling cute and sexy (outfits like the girls in korean pop groups wear). I think if there were no men, and thus no risk of being raped, judged, etc, I would be really happy to get dressed up and go out in all sorts of cool outfits. It's you guys (not specifically ls guys, and not every guy in the world either) that are ruining all the fun.
nordic Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 And then keep it going. I seen threads on here tearing women down on being slutty. Alright thats cool you don't like sluts. Now threads on here about women not being slutty enough!?!? Really? That being said. I will be the first to say. sex don't matter. Its fun but it don't. Just gotta ask yourselves a real good question. If you end up choosing between two people. One is only raw sexual desire and the other raw personality desire. Which one would you rather be with forever? Cant have both and no in betweens and yes scenarios like this exist in real life. we want to have sex with sluts, and have all sorts of fun. we dont want to marry a slut. its that simple. nothing more to it.
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I only have 3 conditions that need to be met for me to sleep with a new partner in a RELATIONSHIP. 1) They're free of STDs. 2) They don't cheat on me. 3) They don't get attached to be after the sex (this one mostly applies to virgin girls who seem to get this insane attraction afterward and make things incredibly uncomfortable for those of us that just have the sex, not make a big deal of it). They don't cheat on me....then they don't get attached after sex? Maybe you are able to separate your emotions from your sexual desires, but for me, forming an attachment leads to sex with only you, and vice versa. I imagine most women are like this as well... You know, I would rather look like a girl who slept around lots, than be a girl who did sleep around alot. Wearing cute outfits is alot of fun, feeling cute and sexy (outfits like the girls in korean pop groups wear). I think if there were no men, and thus no risk of being raped, judged, etc, I would be really happy to get dressed up and go out in all sorts of cool outfits. It's you guys (not specifically ls guys, and not every guy in the world either) that are ruining all the fun. SO TRUE. Girls too though. When they get jealous of their guy looking at a cute girl, they also instigate lots of hurtful name-calling
thatdog Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 You know, I would rather look like a girl who slept around lots, than be a girl who did sleep around alot. Wearing cute outfits is alot of fun, feeling cute and sexy (outfits like the girls in korean pop groups wear). I think if there were no men, and thus no risk of being raped, judged, etc, I would be really happy to get dressed up and go out in all sorts of cool outfits. It's you guys (not specifically ls guys, and not every guy in the world either) that are ruining all the fun. So do you regularly dress up like this and hang out with your girl friends away from prying male eyes? btw- k-pop attire from what I saw by quickly googling doesn't seem that bad (borderline though). I don't know any girls who like to hang out at friend's places or go out to dinner/movie/etc with female friends and dress up in 'slutty' attire. Instead they dress this way and go to bars/clubs/parties where there are generally many single guys and lots of alcohol and then claim they only want to wear those clothes to look sexy for themselves and hate that men judge them based on how they dress when they hang around with them. I fail to see the logic in this
Titania22 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 SO TRUE. Girls too though. When they get jealous of their guy looking at a cute girl, they also instigate lots of hurtful name-calling Too true. I wish members of our sex would start sticking together. So do you regularly dress up like this and hang out with your girl friends away from prying male eyes? btw- k-pop attire from what I saw by quickly googling doesn't seem that bad (borderline though). Mostly just by myself at home. Recently I bought myself a sexy maid outfit, as soon as it is hot enough to wear, I intend to put it in while I clean the house and dance around (most likely to some korean pop). I promised myself the outfit in 2009, as motivation to lose the weight, and I only just got around to fulfilling the promise. Looks like there will be alot of innocent sexy fun at my place, but there is no way I would wear something like that outside, not even on halloween. This past summer I was rocking the tartan mini skirt, or my army print shorts.
ascendotum Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 And then keep it going. I seen threads on here tearing women down on being slutty. Alright thats cool you don't like sluts. Now threads on here about women not being slutty enough!?!? Really? Depends on who you talk to. The relationship market is so much more de-regulated with Gen-x and Y then previous generations. For many people there is no one and only for ever after. Life is a serious of LT and ST relationships and encounters, and with that there are winners and losers. I reckon the more successful 1/4 of the guys I know would have slept with over 10 times more than the least successful 25%, eazzzy. Guess which segment will tell you there's sluts galore out there. It’s probably the bottom 25% where you get the dichotomy of opinion. They'll complain about women jumping into bed with any hot looking cocky guy within the night, out of frustration + resentment but also complain how women they approach are too stuck up or cautious or prudish. For sure people have their own definitions of 'slut'. Is a woman who's had more partners than birthdays a slut? vs a woman who's had say 14 partners, but 12 of them were in 1 year when she was dealing with 'issues' vs a women who has only had 10 partners but eight of them were ONS when she was bombed out of her mind and got done by sleazy players?
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