HeartHeldHard Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I work with a girl, she is on a different floor but we still bump into eachother from time to time, and I really like her. I have always been comfortable around women but for some reason she takes my breath away and I have been left speechless around her for about 4-5 months now. We have exchanged smiles and a nice hello-hi a few times but other than that we have never spoken. Now to the question, Is it too late for me to ask her out (is it even appropriate)? If a guy you liked just said a hi a few times would you lose interest or would you still want to go out with him? Thanks for your help
samspade Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Hey dude - I'm not a woman but listen up. You should strike up more of a conversation next time and keep it funny and light. Make her laugh. Don't ask out right away, develop a rapport with her over the course of a few chance meetings. Then when you've piqued her interest, get those digits.
FrostFire Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) The first few seconds when you see a woman are the most critical. You can either choose to be shy and not talk or have some guts and talk. Woman are not aliens and don't like to be treated like that. They question to themselves is their something wrong with me? Maybe he's not interested.. etc... When a woman see's you in the first few seconds she is forming an opinion about you. Once she makes eye contact with you is your chance to say something. It's very brief but that's your chance. Say something and you'll be surprised of the outcome. They DON'T bite!! It's even better if she does still hold attention which means she is interested. Ask her out already! Hell say hello to any woman you want. There's no law that says we can't. Strike up a conversation. Most importantly, just be you. Don't wallow in what if's ... instead just get up and focus on "can do's" Don't buy into all this nonsense of bad boys. The only reason these bad boys win is because of one thing: CONFIDENCE Women fall head over heels for a confident strong male. You show confidence by asserting yourself towards women. It's scary but once you do it a couple times it is actually quite fun and is a great way to meeting other uniquely special women. Sure you might get rejected and rejection hurts. Just get back up and go at it again. Each time you're getting stronger and stronger because you are building confidence in yourself with each person you talk to. Be they male or female. Edited May 17, 2011 by FrostFire
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