Eaglesfan07 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 hi all, i know we all have breakups, but they are never easy for me. I moved up to the pacific NW last year, to get away from things that were holding me back. I got into graduate school, and started to focus on school. A little time later, about 4 months later, I met a girl who just WOWd me. 1 year later, she broke up with me. He had our fights, and I have always had an anger problem, I would blow up at her when she was 5 minutes late to pick me up from class, or whenever something didn't go according to plan I was negative. We went on a trip to Mexico and, lets say I did a few things that were selfish, not taking care of her when she was sick. I never cheated on her or anything, so when we got back from the trip, she told me she was unhappy. We had broken up, I had to move all my things out of the apartment. Everytime I see her its hard, I deleted her off facebook, and Im trying not to contact her. We talked for a bit, and she said that if we were to get back together it wouldnt be for another 6-12 months, and she was saying that my priority should be focused on school and finishing before anything else. I told her I would keep fighting for her, and that I loved her. What do I do?
DontWorryBHappy Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 You move on. Anger problems and not taking care of a loved one when they are sick are big problems. You should address the reasons for those things before you get into another relationship. I'm sorry you are hurting.
KrisT Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I think you are lucky that she seems to of let the door stay open for you. You need to not try so hard to get her back. Give her the 6-12 months. Worry about school. Hang with your friends and family. Since you both seem to be willing to stay in contact do so on occasion during these months she needs. When you do reach out during this time just keep it casual no confessing your love and saying things like you wont give up on getting her back. Basically talk about school and catch up. If you don't give her the time she request. She will close the door on you. You never know after this time comes and goes you may see things differently and realize she is not your one after all, and she can keep the important place in your heart as your first love. Hopefully I have helped.
Author Eaglesfan07 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I know i should just get over it, but IM not ready yet. I love her and I feel that we can make things work, just given the time.... Maybe Im just wishing now.
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