SoConfusledandHurt Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I have so many unresolved feelings. The sad thing is, they will never be resolved either. Ive been with him for almost 5 yrs. He talked me into being a stay at home mom. So now that we are splitting, I have nothing! And as he is not their bio dad (and doesnt even care to continue to be in their lives at all now) there is going to be no support there. Im kinda freaking out right now. He has taken away my credit card. I cant even put gas in my car and my mother is with me...she is going to school...will finish in 3 months...I dont know how she is going to get there with no gas in the car. He says I should just forget him as a resource from now on. As I asked him yesterday to use the truck to see about a job and that was the answer I got. I will only be living here until the kids finish school the beginning of june. Then I dont have a clue where I will be going with my kids. All the issues we had I pushed away and fought through with him. I wish I could turn back time and have never come back. But whats done is done. How am I going to do this? My dad is no help. I have nothing to my name, its all in his. Am I this screwed? Seriously? OMG.
Tiberius Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 i hate to state the obvious, but get an attorney. i don't know where you are, but you have rights and should be aware of those rights. this is not the end. things will get better, but you must protect yourself. if he thinks he can just up and leave you with no financial support, he is sorely mistaken. sorry you're having to deal with this. If he was just a partner, then depending on where you live, no there is nothing you can get out of him most likely. Not with the lawyer you can afford. Look up if you are in a common law state, then your chances are much better. You are not screwed. Jobs are out there, all you have to do is get one for yourself. Your life will be modest by American standards most likely, but it does not mean that it cant be a good life. You should really get into tracking the bio dad for child support monnies.
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