HeartHeldHard Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 So I work with a girl that I am dying to ask out but I am not really sure how to go about it. We work on different floors and I don't get to see her to often but when I do I am stunned and left pretty much speechless. She started working for the same company as me about 4-5 months ago and since then the most we have ever said to one another is hi (a few times). I'm not sure how she feels about me but I get a good vibe from her and even if she hates me I have to take the chance of asking her out. The office where she works is with an open floor plan I don't want to put her, or myself, on the spot in front of 30 other people. Like I said, I don't get to see her to much (a few times a week) so should I just go up to her and start a conversation, finishing with asking her out, wait for the perfect moment when she is somehow alone, or leave a not on her car (which sounds really corny but a freind suggessted). The only thing that I am sure about is that I need to get to her better ASAP cause she is driving me crazy. Please, any advice is appreciated. Thanks
Nexus One Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) Write a note in which you tell her you like her, put your phone number and e-mail address on it and ask her to call or e-mail you if she's interested in going out on a date. Make sure you put your name on it and drop it off personally by her desk so that she can see who the note is from. Make a small chit chat if you want or leave immediately with a smile on your face, whichever you like most. That way you get to ask her out without making "a scene" in front of all her colleagues and that way she'll know who the note is from by face. If you put the note under the screen wiper of her car she will not be sure who the note is from, unless she makes the mental connection between the name on the note and your face. So what if it's corny. I've heard other people on the forum say it's not original. But it gets the message across, that's what it's about in the end. Sure we're not in high school anymore, but that doesn't mean we sometimes still feel like that when it comes to crushes. Edited May 17, 2011 by Nexus One
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