happiness0421 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) I am angry because it has been almost 1 month NC (initiated by me; blocked him 2 weeks ago because he kept bothering me) and I CANNOT get him out of my head. It is not debilitating; it is just extremely frustrating. I am tired of thinking about him! I am also angry because I went on Facebook to clean up my profile a little bit - I had "Liked" his work's group page when we first started dating, and I find out that he has "Un-liked" me from the page. HONESTLY?!!?! Did it really bother you THAT much?! I cannot believe that I am talking about a 26 year old right now. Absolutely ridiculous. I thought I was dating a mature, rational individual. I cannot believe he would stoop as low as he did. And what I don't understand is why he would go to such extremes to cut me out of his life and then continue to keep bugging me literally almost every day after the breakup! UGHHH I am so utterly frustrated and ticked off...I want to be over this, it's been almost two months since we broke up! Sorry just needed to vent on this overcast day Edited May 17, 2011 by happiness0421
Sassygirl2 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I feel you Happiness. I am also at the stage of just being pissed off at my ex for how he has handled things. He dumped me and hasn't really tried to keep in touch. We have talked/emailed a little bit but he's an a$$#@!*. I am kind of glad I'm at this anger stage after one month. I think I'm feeling better about everything even though I still think about him a lot. He's always there in the back of my mind but I consciously have been trying to redirect my mind to other things. Sometimes I get lost in that "what if" feeling and just linger there til I'm completely lost but this is starting to get better too. I think I'd rather be here than in the devastated phase 2 weeks ago. How about you? Have you tried the rubberband on your wrist trick?
Author happiness0421 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Posted May 18, 2011 Haha funny you mention the rubberband trick, because I did try it for a few days! It worked, too. (I used a hair tie instead...a little more stylish ). Now I just use that same concept without the hair tie - whenever I feel myself starting to dwell on it a little too much, I use some sort of mental image to distract myself (even if it's thinking about work, etc.) I would DEFINITELY rather be in the phase I'm in now than the one I was in a month and a half ago when all of this sh*t happened. There are days that are harder than others, but it really seems like it is getting easier and easier to deal with, which is good. Thanks for your post!
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