vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 If nothing else I have learned a lot from my EA and MM. I have no idea how things will end up but happy I have learned a whole new lesson. As someone who tends to focus on the physical so much, it is a whole new world when you don't have this to focus on. When you only focus on your emotional aspects of a relationship it can become SO intense. When you don't have the physical you can really get to know someone on a whole new level. And then if and when you do become sexual IRL it is sure to be Amazing !! Some people don't understand why I haven't seen my MM in person in so long, but now it makes sense to me. If we had of met up and became physical before I'm sure it would of hindered the way we have opened up to one another. Some things are worth the wait
jthorne Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Mkay... I've heard of a lot of these virtual relationships ending up being very disappointing when the fantasy doesn't match the reality.
bestplayer Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 If nothing else I have learned a lot from my EA and MM. I have no idea how things will end up but happy I have learned a whole new lesson. As someone who tends to focus on the physical so much, it is a whole new world when you don't have this to focus on. When you only focus on your emotional aspects of a relationship it can become SO intense. When you don't have the physical you can really get to know someone on a whole new level. And then if and when you do become sexual IRL it is sure to be Amazing !! Some people don't understand why I haven't seen my MM in person in so long, but now it makes sense to me. If we had of met up and became physical before I'm sure it would of hindered the way we have opened up to one another. Some things are worth the wait Sounds great , Go for it . Best of luck
bentnotbroken Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 If nothing else I have learned a lot from my EA and MM. I have no idea how things will end up but happy I have learned a whole new lesson. As someone who tends to focus on the physical so much, it is a whole new world when you don't have this to focus on. When you only focus on your emotional aspects of a relationship it can become SO intense. When you don't have the physical you can really get to know someone on a whole new level. And then if and when you do become sexual IRL it is sure to be Amazing !! Some people don't understand why I haven't seen my MM in person in so long, but now it makes sense to me. If we had of met up and became physical before I'm sure it would of hindered the way we have opened up to one another. Some things are worth the wait Completely agree. Waiting for him to hang himself was well worth the wait. :lmao:
greengoddess Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 lol I have a feeling he is scared to death of you and would never progress to live real life touching. His hands seem to be working just fine. He's enjoying the game. When it goes beyond fantasy the game is over.
Mimolicious Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 What about if he has a innie winnie tinny wenny shriveled little short &*&^??... (Gosh I loved that song!) What about if once you get rolling in the sheets with him, his performance sucks? I would be bevastated. LOL! jk. (no really) Well good luck, as for what you have said here, you have been waiting a bit. Hope it's all you expect it to be. Better yet, don't expect anything that way you don't have to be disappointed.
Rose1977 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I'm not trying to be dense here, but if you are watching porn with him and he is "finishing" himself while you video chat, I think you have passed the point of this being an EA.
bentnotbroken Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I'm not trying to be dense here, but if you are watching porn with him and he is "finishing" himself while you video chat, I think you have passed the point of this being an EA. Yeah. Most people see that...most.
Heather1 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 If nothing else I have learned a lot from my EA and MM. I have no idea how things will end up but happy I have learned a whole new lesson. As someone who tends to focus on the physical so much, it is a whole new world when you don't have this to focus on. When you only focus on your emotional aspects of a relationship it can become SO intense. When you don't have the physical you can really get to know someone on a whole new level. And then if and when you do become sexual IRL it is sure to be Amazing !! Some people don't understand why I haven't seen my MM in person in so long, but now it makes sense to me. If we had of met up and became physical before I'm sure it would of hindered the way we have opened up to one another. Some things are worth the wait YIKES!! I just read this! I kind of agree w/ best player, you're in pretty deep. All I have to say is I hope you know how men think....
ladydesigner Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Mkay... I've heard of a lot of these virtual relationships ending up being very disappointing when the fantasy doesn't match the reality. True this:lmao::lmao: Not only had me and XOM been friends/co-workers long before the EA, but we were deep in an EA before it turned physical, and lets just say the physical reality DID NOT match the fantasy:lmao:
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 True, the sex could end up not so good. However, when ever I have felt that deep sexual attraction it has always ended up pleasurable. As far as him being small or what ever, I could really care less. It's not about genitals, there are a million other things we could do even if he had a missing D$(& !!! .( But I really hope that is not the case) LOL !! Besides he has some really think fingers anyway (ROTF) What do you mean if we sext and have cyber sex it is past a EA. What do you call it then, because our interactions have always been sexual on and off depending on where he is and where I am at the time. And Yes, I know how men think.. for sure !! I used to work with over 250 men at JFK airport in NYC, I was the ONLY female for a while and then a few others joined us. I learned a TON about men during that time, some good, some bad and everywhere in between. ( I have often been told I think like a man as well) Those of you who wished me luck.. Thank you !! BTW-have been ignoring him for the last 4 days, cell phone is turned off !! He needs to really think and figure some things out !!
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 True, the sex could end up not so good. However, when ever I have felt that deep sexual attraction it has always ended up pleasurable. As far as him being small or what ever, I could really care less. It's not about genitals, there are a million other things we could do even if he had a missing D$(& !!! .( But I really hope that is not the case) LOL !! Besides he has some really think fingers anyway (ROTF) What do you mean if we sext and have cyber sex it is past a EA. What do you call it then, because our interactions have always been sexual on and off depending on where he is and where I am at the time. And Yes, I know how men think.. for sure !! I used to work with over 250 men at JFK airport in NYC, I was the ONLY female for a while and then a few others joined us. I learned a TON about men during that time, some good, some bad and everywhere in between. ( I have often been told I think like a man as well) Those of you who wished me luck.. Thank you !! BTW-have been ignoring him for the last 4 days, cell phone is turned off !! He needs to really think and figure some things out !! New York huh?
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Mostly in Queens but I am from Michigan..I lived out there for over 5 years and learned a whole lot about all different types of people.. Sometimes even cry when I see my city on TV.... I love that place !!
Mimolicious Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 New York huh? How you like them APPLES? I think I want to sell a reality show idea. Let me call BravoTV. "The Real Other Woman In NYC"- TROWINYC. NICE! (cause these Housewives franchise is boring me already).
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 What is trowing ?? Now i know what trolling is but not sure about trowing, or is that a typo ?
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 What is trowing ?? Now i know what trolling is but not sure about trowing, or is that a typo ? Actually, if you don't mind Mimo, I don't get the TROW either. Now I'm curious. Also, I don't think she is in NY now. Maybe never has been. Seems like TMI for a poster in this kind of situation to be giving on the net.
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I don't know what is allowed on here.. but would like to put a real pic up of me on profile.. is that allowed ?? at least then you will see I am a real person !
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Actually, if you don't mind Mimo, I don't get the TROW either. Now I'm curious. Also, I don't think she is in NY now. Maybe never has been. Seems like TMI for a poster in this kind of situation to be giving on the net. Mimo was joking that she wanted to start a reality TV show called 'The Real Other Woman [acronym: TROW] in NYC.' I only mentioned NY because Daisy lives in NY. And I'm convinced that Daisy & this poster are one & the same, or else they have a similar agenda to start a bunch of threads basically gloating that they are so happy in their affair & then trying to insult whoever points out that maybe things aren't as rosy as they seem, & accusing others of being jealous of them or unhappy/bitter, etc. Ha ha Mimo with the big apples & TROW in NYC jokes -- you really do crack me up! OP- of course you can post your pic for your profile pic, a lot of people do on LS, although not usually OW/OMs]. But go right ahead. In fact I request a pic of you holding up a sign saying 'I'm not Daisy' & pic from Daisy holding up a sign saying 'I'm not VWEB.' [Although I'm sure if you're the same person using two different accounts, you could get a friend to post one from Daisy's account, so even then, I would remain suspicious. Sorry but your writing style & themes are just too coincidental . . .] *Disclaimer: I don't recommend posting your photo or personal details online, especially if you don't want to get into hot water from your MM, but, if you want to, go right ahead, should be interesting . . .
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I am happy in life in general. And I haven't alway been this way so of course I'm gloating... My life is going great, everything is falling into place, being the OW is the only thing that is a tad confusing. Well and I'm kinda poor right now. I realize there are going to be some sworn woman on here. Just don't understand why NO ONE is hopeful. Men leave wife't to be with other woman all the time. One of the main reason's people get divorced. If I feel he is my true love, just like me. Then why wouldn't I be optimistic ? Stranger things have happened, someone has to win ! Besides ever heard of what you think will happen will happen??
Mimolicious Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Ooohh soo subliminal. I also think that there is another panty-hose here from NYC. They just TROWLLING in here with the same writing style as a previous banned member. Vwebs- I don't think there is a rule against avi's being your own pic but be careful. Someone may recognize you.
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I am looking carefully who is on here.. I will try to hide from other Michiganer's and hope no one reconizes me !! I think it will be okay, haven't said anything to specific that would out MM or his W..
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I am happy in life in general. And I haven't alway been this way so of course I'm gloating... My life is going great, everything is falling into place, being the OW is the only thing that is a tad confusing. Well and I'm kinda poor right now. I realize there are going to be some sworn woman on here. Just don't understand why NO ONE is hopeful. Men leave wife't to be with other woman all the time. One of the main reason's people get divorced. If I feel he is my true love, just like me. Then why wouldn't I be optimistic ? Stranger things have happened, someone has to win ! Besides ever heard of what you think will happen will happen?? It just seems silly to have all this hope that he's going to leave his wife for you when he hasn't even told you that he wants to, & has in fact told you he wants to have sex with his wife. I don't get where you're coming from at all. I assume you mean 'scorned' woman with the bolded. ?
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I am looking carefully who is on here.. I will try to hide from other Michiganer's and hope no one reconizes me !! I think it will be okay, haven't said anything to specific that would out MM or his W.. Well that makes even less sense . . . how in the world would you know if someone from Michigan is reading this thread? They don't have to sign up or say where they're from to read it. Just because you post a picture doesn't mean you're not a troll. Obviously trolls are real people who create accounts & post. I really hope for your sake that this mess isn't real.
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I am happy in life in general. And I haven't alway been this way so of course I'm gloating... My life is going great, everything is falling into place, being the OW is the only thing that is a tad confusing. Well and I'm kinda poor right now. I realize there are going to be some sworn woman on here. Just don't understand why NO ONE is hopeful. Men leave wife't to be with other woman all the time. One of the main reason's people get divorced. If I feel he is my true love, just like me. Then why wouldn't I be optimistic ? Stranger things have happened, someone has to win ! Besides ever heard of what you think will happen will happen?? Sorry dear, MM DON'T leave their W's for OW all the time. It does happen. Sometimes when it happens, they even marry OW. Often, they cheat on FOW made wife and leave her also. The fairy tale is such a small margin. You say you are kind of poor. Would you bet all you the money you do have on a casino, considering the odds? I'm sorry, but you are doing that with your emotions. As for, "ever hear what you think will happen will?" Have you ever heard what you wish on others is what you bring upon yourself? What are you wishing for his BW? Will you enjoy having that happen to you?
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