lifeasiknowit Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I was looking at a guy's profile on OK Cupid and he is clearly super smart. He's a Phd student and reads philosophy, history, is interested in the ethics and morals of Martin Luther King Jr., the Ancient Greeks, ect. His profile goes on about his curiosity and experiences in life and he sounds like a really intelligent guy with strong morals, but under his "interest in" section he listed casual sex (as well as short and long term dating.) I'm not saying smart guys don't have a sex drive, but would most women be interested in a man who although seems great, would advertise that he's up for casual sex? I just wouldn't expect a guy who's into philosophy and reads Nietzsche to admit to wanting random sex.
USCGAviator Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Sounds like casual sex helps him recharge his brain.
Author lifeasiknowit Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I'm just perplexed by his profile. I can understand some guy who has a sleazy sounding profile wanting casual sex, but this guy sounds like he has depth and smarts (unless it's all BS) .
USCGAviator Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 He probably doesn't take the site seriously. Ooooor he figured he would throw a casual sex curve ball in the mix to confuse and intrigue women. Then next thing you know you exchange a couple msgs and he uses his mind to make a small fire in your panties. Careful with this one
utterer of lies Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I was looking at a guy's profile on OK Cupid and he is clearly super smart. He's a Phd student and reads philosophy, history, is interested in the ethics and morals of Martin Luther King Jr., the Ancient Greeks, ect. His profile goes on about his curiosity and experiences in life and he sounds like a really intelligent guy with strong morals, but under his "interest in" section he listed casual sex (as well as short and long term dating.) I'm not saying smart guys don't have a sex drive, but would most women be interested in a man who although seems great, would advertise that he's up for casual sex? I just wouldn't expect a guy who's into philosophy and reads Nietzsche to admit to wanting random sex. So us intellectuals aren't allowed to enjoy sex? Hedonism is not necessarily a bad thing. Just because someone is looking for a long relationship doesn't mean one cannot indulge in a short affair in-between. At least he's honest enough to state it on the website. You have some weird notions about smart people ... and about Nietzsche. Maybe you should read some of Nietzsche's works on morality...
Confusedalways Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Even the best matches for me, I was automatically turned off by people seeking casual sex. It's one thing to think it, and want it, but to essentially wave a flag declaring you want casual sex is really not the type of person I'm looking for. I think it definitely says something about their personality. Just my $.02
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