ghaile Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I'm really confused??? its been a month since my boyfriend visited me here and that is the time we've been together formally, he introduced me to his family and friends thru online communication and they accept me, while he's here we talked about our future living together and he said im gonna go on his place On Autumn, before he left he promised that he will call me more often, but lately(5 days ago) since the last time i heard his voice on the phone though we exchange messages everyday but im still longing for him to call me and hear his laugh and stories..,when he's still here i found out that his a member of so many dating site,but he told me that his gonna close his account there..im confused also and doubt his real feeling for me coz i never heard him saying the magic words, though he told me that his in love with me and i am important to him and he want me to be his wife,and as of now he told me his making an invitation for me for the applications of my visa,but today when i open his account in facebook, he told to his friend to help him on the invitation but he mention to his friend the reason for inviting a Thai and im a filipina, so i doubt if he's doing that invitation for me or for a certain Thai girl since his a member of thailand love link..do you think its normal for a white guy not to say their true feeling( apathy)? and how can i prove that he really love me..what is the sign to prove is serious about relationship and he really love me?..please need some advice..
blugirl Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Hey girl, please don't generalise, the race doesn't have anything to do with the fact if someone says 'i love you' or not, it's more about the personality... Besides, don't wanna burst your bubble but looks like your guy is inviting many other girls to his place...? I don't know cause your writing is a bit chaotic. But if he's inviting some Thai girl, that would be a red flag for me. Confront him and decide what to do next.
Kari Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Out of your post this stood out to me the most. i found out that his a member of so many dating site,but he told me that his gonna close his account there. Was this dating account made before you got together? Or did he recently make it? Has he been active on it? How did you find out about it?
Author ghaile Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Im so sorry if i sounded that way,but im not against with all white guys:)..yeah you're it is based on the personality of a person,he did invite any girl on his pad,and his a member of that dating site before we met each other,and still active as a member,but now that we're apart to each other i dont have an idea if he already close his account there. I ask so many questions on him but he didnt give me a concrete answer, also ask him how much does he love me?he just drop the question and proceed to next topic, its really bothering me thinking that his contacting other girl,esp.Thai,coz everytime we talk he keeps mentioning thailand,im also upset bcoz sometimes he can be so sweet and sometimes dont have energy to talk with me "keeps complaining that his tired and sleepy" which is i understand coz of his nature of job.for me i've done so many things just to please him,i didnt expecting that he can return the favor for me.i just really wanted to know what he truely feel for me. Whats the best thing i need to do?do i need to say i love you first,or shall i wait him to say it voluntarilly?.thank you so much,i really appreciate it..Godbless
Tayla Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 ghaille, I applaud you for coming here when english is not your native tongue. Its hard for anyone to converse, but you got your point across. Its rather early to say those tender words. You are at the beginning stage and still learning. I hope you give him time to adjust to having just one lady to be happy and enjoy time with.
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