If you think that friends take the womans side, your dead wrong

[Sugarkane]

There seems to be alot of people on here that think this. It makes me laugh after what happened to me:

www.loveshack.org/forums/t261358

 

After my ex betrayed me and dumped and insulted me by text, he poisoned everyone against me. They all cut me off. My jerk ex played victim. While I was depressed and shocked, my ex was already happy with someone else, only 2 weeks later. Yet everyone took his side.

One friend said "I hope yo two will still be friends". I mean as if i'd be friends with an ex that couldn't even dump me face to face. Justs insults me via text. Great way to dump someone hey?

 

Another friend said I could call her anytime. I called her soon after the breakup. She treated me like a stranger and was extremely rude. She yelled at me to "get over it". I deleted her number and never talked to her ever again.

 

Not only had I lost my ex, I also lost a whole group of friends. I know other people who have broken up. But they've still remained friends with the group of people, especially with the person that got betrayed. Whereas as soon as my ex brokeup with me, not one of these people wanted to know me at all. I was severely depressed and needed friends and tehy all betrayed me even though I was the woman and the dumpee.

[nana841121]

what kind of friends are they?

If they ditch you only because of your ex's badmouth, you have no trust between each other.

they are not true friend.

it's not a loss to lose them

[nessaaa]

:S

What did your ex tell them?? I dont get why they would just turn their backs on you?

[Sugarkane]

I have no idea what he told them and now I'll never know. If they're stupid enough to believe him, I hope he screws them all over just like he did to me.

[Sugarkane]

So much for "friends!". I think e turned everyone against me just so he could play innocent. I'm almost 100% sure my ex cheated on me. Dumped cruelly with zero answers. While else could you be with someone new, 2 weeks later from ending a serious relationship?

[Kari]

Think of it this way: They were not friends to begin with. A true friend won't kick you when your down.

 

Time to meet some new ones!

[Sugarkane]

I feel envious when I hear about someone who's been in the same situation as me, yet the friends actually stayed friends with them. Especially when like me they were betrayed and verbally abused by their dumper. Why didn't these friends care about me?

 

I really feel like telling what I think about them. I've bottled my emotions up for so long and for what for? The chance of me ever seeing these people again is very slim, almost zero.