Timmeh Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Let me start with the fact that I love my girlfriend but sometimes she drives me up a wall. I'm usually the one who has to initiate every date. I never get invited to hang out with her it is always me who has to reach out to her. Is this normal? I don't mind making plans but it just would be nice to feel like I wasn't the only one putting effort into the relationship.
USCGAviator Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Put it to the test. Quit inviting her and see how long it takes for you to see her.
Author Timmeh Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Put it to the test. Quit inviting her and see how long it takes for you to see her. I'm doing that right now... So far I'm on 4 days. Usually we see each other every 4-5 days. She is leaving this weekend to go visit family in another state. If she doesn't invite me to hang out in the next two days it will be at least 11 days until I see her.
USCGAviator Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 You can handle this many different ways. For me, I would not invite her at all until she starts to wonder whats going on. Thats just me though. I only give respect if I get it in return. Good luck to you.
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