Katyy Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 My best friend and I have been friends a really long time ( 4 years) , and she is a really good friend, but she was dating this guy for a while and ( he was controlling , and couldn't stand that she stood up for herself) I never met her boyfriend while they were dating ,but one night she told me he was mad at her because she was busy and wouldn't let him come over and well he added me off her Facebook and asked if I was his girlfriends best friend and I said yes , and he said he wanted to tell me why they were fighting and told me some mean stuff about her. ( I don't know why he was telling me this when he didn't know me when he knew I would tell her) but then he told me they were no longer together which I found out later was untrue , but now they are broke up. They haven't been broke up very long , and well now me and him are dating ( Ive only known him a couple weeks not even a month) and my friend doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore because I was dating him behind her back and well I don't know if he really likes me or is just using me because I have heard he had sex with another girl which is true because the girl described him to me , and I don't know what to do. Also at first when they were still together ( when he was telling me they weren't) he was trying to text me and her at the same time and asking her to be his sex buddy.he also told her that how did it feel not to have control over who her friends talked to and its weird.So all I want to know is if he is trying to hurt her through me?she is really upset.
Cracker Jack Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 He sure is. I don't even understand why you would even allow yourself to be in this position when you know no good can come out of it. You should know this would do nothing but hurt your friend.
CrestfallenNoMore Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Wow. Bad form. Yes, you're just a tool...to get back at her.
Kari Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 He sure is. I don't even understand why you would even allow yourself to be in this position when you know no good can come out of it. You should know this would do nothing but hurt your friend. This exactly. Why would you go and date your friends ex after she told you he was controlling to top it off?
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