HappyPanda Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 My bf and i have been dating a little over a year... Around month 9 or so, he made a comment that he hoped I was "the one" Up until that point, we never really argued or had any serious disagreements... Since then, we've become much closer in many ways, but we've also had a couple of pretty heavy arguments.. A woman at my work has been dating a man for 2 years, who has YET to get divorced (a combination of laziness, and the fact that he and his ex are doing it without a lawyer) he has told her multiple times that he wants her to move in and that he wants to marry her... Needless to say, she tells him everytime that he needs to get DIVORCED before any of that can happen. I was talking to him on the phone this afternoon about them and I jokingly said "babe, please dont ask me to marry you until you've finalized your divorce" to which he replied "oh, I guess I should take care of that then..." laughed nervously. I again, jokingly replied that I didnt think him dumb enough to ask me to marry him. And he made some crack about not being that dumb... I laughed at the time, but now in hindsight, it kind of bothers me that he didnt say anything about one day seeing us heading in that direction... I understand the conversation was light hearted and all in jest, but it made me wonder if because the "honeymoon" stage is over between us... If he still see's me as being "the one" I know I might just be being insecure, but, for those of you who are already happily married, or are currently dating the person you know you want to be with... Did you ever have doubts when problems have arised?
Kari Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Every relationship has it's doubts, it's perfectly normal. If what was said concerned you don't be afraid to communicate about it. You can ask your partner if he can see marriage in your future.
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