jj88 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Ok, so I met this guy. First night we met, we talked for a long time. We said we should go get coffee. He texted me the next day saying how nice it was to meet me, and we made our coffee date. We had a GREAT coffee date, and he invited me to a show he was playing that weekend. I went, he didn't leave my side. He introduced me to his friends, and we had a REALLY GREAT TIME...I brought him a chocolate bar, as we had talked about how much we love it. He asked if I was ready to leave, and that he would like to drive me home. He drove me home and gave me a kiss (a very nice goodnight kiss, I might add). I was leaving this morning for a week. I emailed him the next day saying what a great time I had had. He emailed me back 3 days later, saying he had a nice time, too, and that he was going to attach a photo of fondue he was going to make out of the chocolate. It was a nice email. I was so happy. I figured I wouldn't email back as I would be home in a day. SO, I texted him when I got back. I said I was back, and I was around if he wanted to meet up. And I asked him if he had made the fondue. He EMAILED me back a few hours later and said, " Welcome back! Attached is a picture from yesterday early afternoon. Chocolate fondue with cashews... Best, B." I haven't responded, and haven't heard back from him since that email. That was 3 days ago. did he just suddenly lose interest? Was that his "nice" way of blowing me off? I just really felt this guy liked me, as I liked him. Any advice or thoughts would help....
fwang Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Ok, so I met this guy. First night we met, we talked for a long time. We said we should go get coffee. He texted me the next day saying how nice it was to meet me, and we made our coffee date. We had a GREAT coffee date, and he invited me to a show he was playing that weekend. I went, he didn't leave my side. He introduced me to his friends, and we had a REALLY GREAT TIME...I brought him a chocolate bar, as we had talked about how much we love it. He asked if I was ready to leave, and that he would like to drive me home. He drove me home and gave me a kiss (a very nice goodnight kiss, I might add). I was leaving this morning for a week. I emailed him the next day saying what a great time I had had. He emailed me back 3 days later, saying he had a nice time, too, and that he was going to attach a photo of fondue he was going to make out of the chocolate. It was a nice email. I was so happy. I figured I wouldn't email back as I would be home in a day. SO, I texted him when I got back. I said I was back, and I was around if he wanted to meet up. And I asked him if he had made the fondue. He EMAILED me back a few hours later and said, " Welcome back! Attached is a picture from yesterday early afternoon. Chocolate fondue with cashews... Best, B." I haven't responded, and haven't heard back from him since that email. That was 3 days ago. did he just suddenly lose interest? Was that his "nice" way of blowing me off? I just really felt this guy liked me, as I liked him. Any advice or thoughts would help.... 1. Coffee date is cheap. If a guy really likes you, he would ask you out for dinner. 2. Emailing you 3 days later means he is not that into you. 3. In the email, he knew that you were back but he didn't set up any date with you. This means that he is not that into you. Girl, you gotta move on.
VicJay79 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 JJ88, I am glad you had a wonderful date :-). Most guys don't call a girl back for a least a couple days just so they don't seem OVERLY interested. Its a stupid mating/dating thing that I don't subscribe too. Give him sometime. Ok, so I met this guy. First night we met, we talked for a long time. We said we should go get coffee. He texted me the next day saying how nice it was to meet me, and we made our coffee date. We had a GREAT coffee date, and he invited me to a show he was playing that weekend. I went, he didn't leave my side. He introduced me to his friends, and we had a REALLY GREAT TIME...I brought him a chocolate bar, as we had talked about how much we love it. He asked if I was ready to leave, and that he would like to drive me home. He drove me home and gave me a kiss (a very nice goodnight kiss, I might add). I was leaving this morning for a week. I emailed him the next day saying what a great time I had had. He emailed me back 3 days later, saying he had a nice time, too, and that he was going to attach a photo of fondue he was going to make out of the chocolate. It was a nice email. I was so happy. I figured I wouldn't email back as I would be home in a day. SO, I texted him when I got back. I said I was back, and I was around if he wanted to meet up. And I asked him if he had made the fondue. He EMAILED me back a few hours later and said, " Welcome back! Attached is a picture from yesterday early afternoon. Chocolate fondue with cashews... Best, B." I haven't responded, and haven't heard back from him since that email. That was 3 days ago. did he just suddenly lose interest? Was that his "nice" way of blowing me off? I just really felt this guy liked me, as I liked him. Any advice or thoughts would help....
tb24 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Well the reason he emailed rather than texted back was so he could send the picture. I'm not sure I agree with the above, I don't think he'd have bothered with the picture if he wasn't interested. Maybe he's waiting for you to reply? I know when I'm just starting seeing someone it feels like it might be coming on too strong by not taking it in "turns". However, it's odd that you told him when you were around and that you wanted to meet up but he didn't pick up on that at all! Anyway, if he doesn't contact today, and you're still interested you're going to have to email him back. If you leave it any later than that, it might be kinda awkward.
Author jj88 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Thanks for the advice. I just feel really confused BECAUSE I really like this guy. It seemed he really liked me, too; but the fact he hasn't contacted me to meet up is what really confuses me. I feel like when a guy really likes a girl, he goes after her. I just don't want to appear desperate, or like I am the one chasing him. I really appreciate your advice. Thank you...
Author jj88 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Thanks for the advice. Trying to wait for him, but this Gemini has no patience for it... Dating is so hard!
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