Lost

[Andrew1983]

Hi there my names andrew and im 27 from perth western australia.my girlfreind and i have been together for 6 months now but we have only had 5 weeks to spend together because we both work in the mines.she is absolutly amazing and we have been been very hurt in the past her more than me bless her she has been to hell and back she knows how much respect and care i have for her but she sometimes is scared of being hurt again even tho she knows that she is my world.we had both been single for 2 years prior to meeting and when we met we both were and still are deeply in love she tells me she loves me all the time and how excited she is to have a future with me.she is not coping at all with being apart and she is so so scared of loseing me and being hurt.i told her that im going to quit my job and go to work on the same site as her but i think she doesent beleive that it will come about.she tells me she has a low self asteam and doesent think that she is good enough for me because of the huge nightmare the poor girl has been put threw.i love her so much and im so scared of loseing her and often recently she goes qiet on me when i can tell she is deep in thought about things.she is scared and confussed she tells me and im not sure what i can do to help her she knows exactly how i feel and im so broken and feel so helpless.she is also 27 please help any kind ladies out there,thanks andy

[creighton0123]

What's the point of being in a relationship if you're both living your lives terrified of losing said relationship?

 

Resolve the fear of loss and risk the two of you have and you'll be much happier, long distance or not.