RareBreed Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Okay so as I posted in a previous thread, my girlfriend of 1year left me for and old guy friend of hers. When we broke up, I agreed with the break up told her I'd always have love for her, and she said the same. Anyways, Im living my life now, doing great without her & havent spoken to her. I planned on sending her a happy friendly birthday card next week but now she's flipped from being nice about the breakup to being evil and trying to make me jealous. She's been posting things on twitter like "If you dont treat your woman right, someone else will".. and how she's having oh so much fun with her new man. This isn't affecting me in any kind of way because I've read through the forum alot and I know this witch isn't someone I should be with, but I keep her on my twitter because I thought we were still friends until now lol. (and dont say delete her, ive heard this before haha) My question to you all is... shouldnt I be the one doing stuff like this?? LOL Im the one who got played like a fool... so what's her motive??? Is she mad because I'm not mad about her leaving me for another guy or what? Comments Pleaseee and Thank Youu
Kari Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 I'm guessing that she wanted you to still hold feelings for her whilst she was with another man. Now that she sees that you are truly over her, it upsets her. She wanted to be the one you wouldn't forget. Your ex sounds like a woman who strives off drama. I'm happy that you were able to get over her, it's a great accomplishment. Time to move on with your life and be happy.
Author RareBreed Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 That's what I was thinking. I'm honestly not mad though. & I'm still gonna send the card, not for a reaction out of her, but because it's the nice thing to do. I don't have time to go around hating someone.
plasma Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 That's what I was thinking. I'm honestly not mad though. & I'm still gonna send the card, not for a reaction out of her, but because it's the nice thing to do. I don't have time to go around hating someone. you bafoon why on earth would you a DUMPEE send anything !?!?!?!?! amazing !
1437 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 did she send a happy brithday card to you on ur birthday? and if so, would it have made anything better? i honestly think she's trying to make u jealous, maybe talk to her?
Author RareBreed Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Haha I know the card idea sounds crazy! But I feel like there's nothing wrong with it & honestly, what could possibly go wrong. I already told her I'm not mad. & no my birthday is a few days after hers (woohoo, 21!). & nah I'm not going to talk to her. I don't see a point in that.
Desensitized Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 you bafoon why on earth would you a DUMPEE send anything !?!?!?!?! amazing ! hahaha this response made me laugh so ****ing loud. but seriously, though, if you get her a card, don't put any money in it. just sayin'.
Author RareBreed Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 Haha wtf do I look like. The card says something along the lines of... Happy Birthday & I wish you well." Those might be the exact words.
KrisT Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I agree with your thoughts that she is mad. You are not reacting like she guessed, pining for her getting torn up due to the latest tweet. Its her attempt to make you feel the way she wants you to. Props on the moving on that is never easy, and her drama is not worth it.
Author RareBreed Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I agree with your thoughts that she is mad. You are not reacting like she guessed, pining for her getting torn up due to the latest tweet. Its her attempt to make you feel the way she wants you to. Props on the moving on that is never easy, and her drama is not worth it. -- Thanks, & Yeah I Spazzed The First Week & Had all kinds of mixed emotions (kept it all to myself though). It Feels good to be back to me now though.
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