Justdontknow88 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 (edited) Here's the deal, I do have a lot of trust issues due to my childhood, but I still try to trust my girlfriend. Anyway, First off, I want to know if you guys think my gf is cheating, here's what's goin' on. Me and my gf are 16. She is always saying things like "why can't guys get over me" or "why do so many guys text/like me" When I have repeatedly told her I don't like when she talks about it. Then, about a month ago, a 23 year old she has known supposedly "raped" her, but when I said I was gonna call the police, she did everything in her power to convince me not to, but she was willing to let me go to jail for kicking his ass. And even a week after it happened, when I talked about it, she seems perfectly fine, and when I talked about it last night, she had no idea what I was talking about until I almost went into detail. Also, she is very secretive about her texting, but when I text she always takes my phone and tries to read them and reply. And she always goes on myspace and meets new guys who usually send her shirtless pics, which doesn't make me feel threatened, because i'm pretty well built, but it hurts because she covers my eyes in movies when a girls is even just in her bra, but when a guy is shirtless or something and I try to do the same she fights me. This hurts because I tell her i'm fine with turning my head because I think she's the most beautiful girl alive, but when it comes to her it's different. I just don't know what's going on, I think she does really love me, but I think she also likes other guys. I just don't know. This is kinda hard to talk about so i'll stop here, if you need to know more, and yes there is more, just ask. Edited May 16, 2011 by Justdontknow88 Details
Kari Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 You two are young. At 16 I didn't take relationships very seriously. By your post it just shows that your girlfriend gets a thrill out of drama. She also seeks attention from the male gender. She is insecure, so she takes in compliments and male flattery to boost her ego. She expects you to not notice the female gender yet hides her activity with males. If she took your relationship seriously she wouldn't need to chat up numerous guys. I think it's best to move on.
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