nirza Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 well.. I am in a relationship with my bf for about 5 years. i live with him and I am 7 months pregnant. before i used to look in his cell phone. now, he gets mad if i touch his cell phone. He gets mad at every little thing. He now goes our with his friends and doesn't want to tell me where he is going. If I wasn't pregnant, I would have already made my decision about leaving... I need some advice please. I work and I go to the university (3 courses remaining to graduate) appreciate Nirza
Kari Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Do you suspect that he is being unfaithful? Always follow your gut. If he is mistreating you, don't stand for it. I understand that you have a baby on the way, but it shouldn't stop you from being happy.
Cee Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 You have a hard situation with a baby coming. I suggest that you talk to your friends and family and make plans about what to do. You don't have to leave him right now, but it looks like you will leave him eventually. Make plans about how you will finish school, get a job and raise your baby without your boyfriend. Also, talk to your boyfriend to see if he will tell you the truth. If he was a good man to you before, he might be scared about being a father and is running around. He might be willing to change, but as we all know, that doesn't happen often. Good luck and keep posting.
Els Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 well.. I am in a relationship with my bf for about 5 years. i live with him and I am 7 months pregnant. before i used to look in his cell phone. now, he gets mad if i touch his cell phone. He gets mad at every little thing. He now goes our with his friends and doesn't want to tell me where he is going. This is very worrisome. I assume you've tried everything else - talking to him, fixing stuff on your end, etc, and it hasn't worked? Well then, you CAN and should leave him, if it's never going to get better. Make him pay child support if you must, so that you can financially support your child and yourself while you finish school. There ARE laws for that in your country, yeah?
Author nirza Posted May 16, 2011 Author Posted May 16, 2011 indeed there are laws in my country for child support. I grew with a family that has morals and that stuff like getting married. before we had talked about getting married and we never did.. I'm glad we didn't.. thanks for your advice.
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