heartbroken555 Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Damn, this is like a drug !!! I was going to break NC today, last time i spoke to my ex, 1 month ago, i told her i wished her well, and asked her not to contact me, and that i would contact her when i am ready. This morning i felt the urge to send her a email, something short n sweet, just asking about her, and if everything is fine with her life. and wishing her a good summer I then thought about it, and thought about the fact she dumped me like a piece of ****, and probably thinks ill still be here waiting for her after shes done humping other dudes and partying and "living her life" and the way she was so cruel to me after the break up and disrespectfull, even though i never hurt her, or treated her badly. She claims i suffocated her, while i was the most leanient boyfriend ever she went clubbing all the time with her girlfriends i rarely objected, she went to cuba with her friends without me, toronto, ect ect. I was never insecrure or jaloues. and she still claimes im suffocating her ? while she was the one always checking on my cell and facebook ect. After all the **** she put me throuhg, i will not loose my self respect for her and contact her again. If she wants me, she has to come back herself, and make a sincere apology. But knowing her, she wont, be cause she thinks shes the ****, and i used to have all her exes runnign after her, and still wanting to be friends... The hell with that, i will be that one man she knew who had some dignity ! even if i miss her like crazy, and i still love her, i could never take her back after she has slept with someone else ( and im sure she did) To me this is just discusting ! Complete betrayal.. Plz, dont break NC, Dont try to figure out a way to get her back, dont try to show her the new YOU, If she wants you, she knows where to find you ! If you never disrespected her, or treated her badly. and that she was once completly in love with you, and know she is not, for some reason you will never know. I think this person doesnt know what love is, and you dont deserve to be dumped out of the blue ! **** that bitch !
Iselia Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 Damn, this is like a drug !!! I was going to break NC today, last time i spoke to my ex, 1 month ago, i told her i wished her well, and asked her not to contact me, and that i would contact her when i am ready. This morning i felt the urge to send her a email, something short n sweet, just asking about her, and if everything is fine with her life. and wishing her a good summer I then thought about it, and thought about the fact she dumped me like a piece of ****, and probably thinks ill still be here waiting for her after shes done humping other dudes and partying and "living her life" and the way she was so cruel to me after the break up and disrespectfull, even though i never hurt her, or treated her badly. She claims i suffocated her, while i was the most leanient boyfriend ever she went clubbing all the time with her girlfriends i rarely objected, she went to cuba with her friends without me, toronto, ect ect. I was never insecrure or jaloues. and she still claimes im suffocating her ? while she was the one always checking on my cell and facebook ect. After all the **** she put me throuhg, i will not loose my self respect for her and contact her again. If she wants me, she has to come back herself, and make a sincere apology. But knowing her, she wont, be cause she thinks shes the ****, and i used to have all her exes runnign after her, and still wanting to be friends... The hell with that, i will be that one man she knew who had some dignity ! even if i miss her like crazy, and i still love her, i could never take her back after she has slept with someone else ( and im sure she did) To me this is just discusting ! Complete betrayal.. Plz, dont break NC, Dont try to figure out a way to get her back, dont try to show her the new YOU, If she wants you, she knows where to find you ! If you never disrespected her, or treated her badly. and that she was once completly in love with you, and know she is not, for some reason you will never know. I think this person doesnt know what love is, and you dont deserve to be dumped out of the blue ! **** that bitch ! I've also had moments where I want nothing more than to contact my ex, because I miss her so damn badly. What I've found is that, whenever I'm feeling this way is to sleep on it for a night and then give it more consideration. I've always found that after I've slept and calmed down emotionally I know NC is best. I'm glad you stuck to your guns.
Sugarkane Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 I can totally relate to your story too. My ex pretty much did the same thing. I was a good gf and never cheated or anything. I let him have boys nights, I'm quite independant anyway and it didn't bother me. Yet he dumps me completely out of the blue by phone and insults me via text. Just to top it off with "I should've dumped you a long time ago". Great way to dump someone hey? Then he called me crazy and pathetic. i mean what a hypocrite!!! I never begged, called him or contacted him ever. I was shocked and depressed. I was close friends with his friends aswell. But then he poisoned them all against me. I have no idea why. They cut me all off. Not only had I lost my ex, but also a whole group of friends. I saw him 2 weeks afer we brokeup. He was already with someone else, looking really happy. He sure didn't waste anytime thats for sure! I enever heard from him ever again.
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