laprass245 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 so theres this girl i tried asking out a few times. once for a game of sports. shes asks who else is coming? i get it. we have alot of mutual friends. then after that , i asked her out for a movie. she agrees first but mentions after that oh these people wanna go watch too... i mean shes definitely not interested right? she doesnt seem to be the one to play mind games. and maybe shes just being nice not to say no to me.. or maybe shes testing my sincerity or just doesnt want to seem so easy? we ve had some basic contaact like touching n all already. im trying my best to be as optimistic as possible and i shouldnt give up just yet right? but when will it be best where i know i should give up already thanks all )
ladyinlimbo Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Maybe she's just inexperienced or shy when it comes to actual dates and she feels more comfortable in group situations, at least for now. What age is she, and what age are you? I wouldn't write things off just yet; just go with the flow, if she suggests doing things in more of a group setting, try it a couple of times and see how she interacts with you......does she still hang out with you or does she just take off and hang out with the others, etc. Does she seem like the shy type?
Author laprass245 Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 I am not sure.. so i haven been friend-zoned? im 21 she 19. not exactly shy.. she does talk. but it seems to me after i ask her that she was finding topics to cover the awkwardness?? so intiate group dates still?
ladyinlimbo Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Yeah, no harm in initiating a couple more group dates. See how she relates to you within such outings. Has she ever had a boyfriend before? Not all 19 yr old girls have, particularly if they're shy when it comes to guys. Does she ever initiate contact with you? Call / email or text you first?
Author laprass245 Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 yeah one... no never only i initaite contact.. so how???
TuffCookieX Posted May 16, 2011 Posted May 16, 2011 When I'm not interested in a guy but I like his friends, I'll pull the same sh*t this girl does but in a better way. Go out on a group date with whatever friends she desires and see how much attention she gives you. If she seems to like you the most, ask if she'd go out one-on-one.
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