robthefool Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Hi guys, long story cut short about 3 months ago now my ex broke up with me after 5 months together with the GIGS saying that she didn't want a relationship anymore and that we should both see other people. She was desperate to stay friends saying she really cared about me etc and being the idiot that I was I agreed that we should stay close. She even used to say 'we can still do sexual stuff as we are both single' and I wasn't over her yet so I played along to this because I didn't want to lose her and hoped she would come back. It was always her that contacted me first for the first few weeks and she kept asking me to meet up etc but I wasn't ready so I made excuses saying I was busy. It happened that we both went to a party with mutual friends (friends of her friends so I hadn't known them too long) 2 weeks after the break up where she got with one of our mutual friends. That was the turning point for me and I knew it was just killing me clinging onto false hope and seeing her have no respect for me by flirting so much infront of me with him. After that I've never gone to another of those mutual gatherings. I also heard after that that she had been bitching about me for a while and when I confronted her about this she seemed deeply sorry but I had no sympathy and after that she tried to contact me less often. I know that she found the breakup hard at first because I heard at first that she had cried a few times and couldn't sleep at night so I couldn't understand her actions. After that I started NC (this was about 2 months ago) but failed after a few weeks after her repeatedly contacting me. This was because she texted me about a month ago late at night asking if I regretted losing my virginity to her (we were both eachother's first) - said that I guess not and she replied saying that she didn't regret it at all. She went on to say that we should talk more and should meet up in summer and said it was 'nice talking to you properly xxx' I was still quite blunt to her as I had been since the break up, I had always been nice to her and treated her very well in the relationship, she always told me she couldn't have found a nicer guy when we were going out. Anyway, since then I have decided to stick strong to NC and not break it, she texted me 2 weeks ago saying hi but I ignored it. I think she has taken this badly though as her and her friends both mimicked my status on BBM a few days ago but I just ignored it and will probably delete them. I'm wondering why she won't just leave me alone? I've realised what a nasty person she can be since we broke up and I've just had enough of her. She also used to tell me how much she hated her ex (he used to call her fat etc) yet she has been seeing him recently and getting together (just friends with benefits type thing) I really can't understand this as I know she goes out and probably gets loads of guys and she absolutely hated him.. Anyway sorry I just needed to say this somewhere and any comments would be nice
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