sacguy2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Hope someone can help. Me and my girlfriend have been together about a year and a half. The other night she told me she does not love me. But she also said I am the perfect guy for her, she has never had a guy treat her so good. I told her that I loved her. After a going back and forth sharing are feelings, I asked her if she wanted to break up or take a break, she said did not. She firmly decided she wants to give it another go but doesn't know for how long. I know she's not cheating. I am I wasting my time?
smudge21 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Sounds like you're girlfriend has some personal issues, maybe something in her past that has turned into these insecurities - she clearly does want you but maybe feels not worthy to have someone treat her like you have been doing. I've experienced this myself - lost partners due to how I've treated them, which was always nice and with respect. Talk to her, see if she'll open up. Sadly she may not, but at least you'll show concern and make it clear you do really care for her. It may also make her think and look deeply into herself. It's hard to really know obviously, I'm no expert, but that's what it sounds like to me.
Author sacguy2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 Thanks. Iam hoping that she does open up, because are relationship is great.
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