Daaanz Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 So yesterday me and my ex met up, we have been doing so like twice a week since we broke up, I still haven't really decided what's best for me. But the last two times we've met up we've had sex, I don't think I regret it and I know it's made us closer since the break up but last night we got along so well, after we had sex we went out to eat and he kissed me a few times, after when we left before we parted he gave me a hug and I asked him if there was a chance for us to get back together soon, and he said yeah. Now when I ask him today he says probably, but he doesn't know, hes just letting it flow and not letting it head in any direction. I feel really upset and I don't know how to explain this situation properly, I have to go on holiday with him in June. I don't know what to do can I have some advice or guidance please ;(
Billie The Puppet Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 You have placed yourself as a FWB, he doesn't want the relationship but wants to keep the sex that came from a relationship.
Pens55 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Thats a really tough situation. I know you're holding out hope that your ex will realize "oh yes, I want to be with you." But letting them get away with non-commital answers like "probably" is just going to hurt you more in the long run. I was in the same situation, and I kept getting hurt over and over again. At some point, you have to put your foot down and demand all or nothing - for your own dignity and peace of mind.
Author Daaanz Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 I'm not going to demand all or nothing, because I know it'll be nothing. My head just feels a mess and I don't know what to do. I know I need to move on, but I keep hanging on, thinking he'll eventually turn round and realise what he's done... But it doesn't look likely when I think about it...
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