andrew-bkk Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 I’m early forties; my son’s mother is late thirties. I joined this forum last year after I discovered that my son’s mother was having an affair with the football manager. She moved away from this house, and her affair has since ended. She tries to come back to me. She says she loves me. I tell her I’m not interested. I met a new girl. She’s 36. I really like her. We went out together 3 times. No sex. I held her hand. I put my arm around her. I kissed her. She's good. Very good. A few days ago the new girl got an abusive phone call at work from my son’s mother. I went crazy. I told my son’s mother to phone the new girl and apologize. And she did. I called the new girl. She says she wants to finish things. I’m not sure if this is what she really wants. We talked for a long time. I tell her that she’s someone special. I tell her I really like her. I tell her she looks lovely. I tell her that I want her to be my little baby. She says it’s okay for me to call her again in a few days. Realistically, what’s happening? Do I have a chance?
ladyinlimbo Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 I tell her that I want her to be my little baby. Um.....................WTF?
Kari Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Many women tend to avoid drama when it comes to exes. She is put off how your ex wife is still pursuing you. You may still have a chance. I suggest talking to your ex wife and establishing boundaries within your personal life.
nyc_guy2003 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Um.....................WTF? Ha, exactly what I was thinking too. His writing in short sentence fragments also kind of weirds me out.
Dust Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 I think you still have a chance, but you and your ex/baby momma may have screwed things up with this girl. First why did you have your wife call and apologize, would have just been better to say “you won’t be hearing from her again.” Second how does your ex/ baby momma even know about this girl after only 3 dates? You should have her blocked from your facebook so I just don’t really get how your wife got this woman’s info. Here is how you proceed, with this girl you don’t give up till you lose all hope. (how ever long that takes) Then you go NC. That means No Contact which pretty much means forgetting her and moving on. If you do end up having to go after other girls keep the name of these girls away from your ex at all cost until things are more cemented.
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