musemaj11 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Yes but maybe it is all for the best. No men procreating means no women of future generations criticizing men for objectifying them. I heard the Japanese are close to making a female robot.
Richard Friedman Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 What's wrong with only wanting sexually related things from a woman? Lmao. :/ Unless I'm emotionally involved with the woman and I care for her deeply, chances are I'm just going to want ass and that's that. Dun dada. Wipe my hands clean and move on with life after the act is over with. Can't speak for all men on the face of this lovely Earth but with types like me, you (as a lovely woman) have a number of factors working against your chances of a meaningful relationship. Those things include: 1. The level of attractiveness the man possesses 2. The amount of success he has with women 3. How easily he can get a woman 4. The amount of priorities on his plate 5. His packed schedule Nothing wrong with that, some people at a certain point in their life, can't really commit to anyone. But nature still calls! Women have to earn their relationship just as Men have to earn their sex. It's a two way street. So unless he considers you a one in a million kind of woman, chances are, he just wants to wax that ass a couple times and that's about it. Not that it's important to this thread but hell, women even have to earn sex from me nowadays. Being hot just doesn't cut it anymore Ms. Brown Eyes. Sorry. :/ Couldn't have said it better. The kind of men most women want is a guy with a lot of options; why should he pick you for anything more than a **** and chuck. The sad fact is that the way the dating game works, average members of both sexes won't get what they want. Average men will not get sex(much less a relationship) with the beautiful woman and average women will not get a relationship with a desirable guy, though she might get a ons if she throws herself at him.
sanskrit Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I heard the Japanese are close to making a female robot. I've seen that robot, they got a ways to go.
Titania22 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 To be honest, you experienced what it's like to be sexually undesirable, as a woman, not as a man. So it may not be the same at all. Point taken! I experienced being sexually undesirable when I had no interest in sex, so I can understand how wanting it and not getting it, is a completely different experience. It's not that I don't feel for you, it's that I can feel for both extremes, 'getting attention when you don't want it' and 'not getting attention when you do'. Both extremes suck! Personally I don't think one is any worse than the other. My best female friend has a more than passing resemblance for Claudia Schieffer, so I have seen it close up. It's about as likeable as drunken "party" girls throwing themselves at you, puking, then calling you "gay" for not accepting their advances. I agree. What you describe sounds hideously disgusting.
sanskrit Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) No I need em to talk, daddy likes his talkative wimmens (referring to the robot gal) Edited May 17, 2011 by sanskrit
AmericanHoney Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Maybe it is because I am choosing the wrong dating sites ( should try christian ones) majority of the guys that have messaged me start talking about sex and what am I wearing?? Hello we haven't even met yet and you are already asking me about sex and what I am wearing?? I am a attractive girl maybe guys assume I am easy and can take advantage of me and treat me as a sex object?
musemaj11 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 in b4 banned Ugly women are going to ban it just like they ban prostitution. I've seen that robot, they got a ways to go. Everything has to start somewhere.
Titania22 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Sex bots are a threat to all women no matter how beautiful. A threat definately, but maybe a threat well worth it, if it leads to a reduction in the human population.
Titania22 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 It won't lead to a reduction in the places that need it but in the places which require the reverse. I know what you mean. Although i doubt any place in the world needs growth anymore, some places grow faster than others.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) I view women as sex objects because they are sex objects. I view them as much more than that too, but we are all, men and women, sex objects. It's one facet of our being. Just one. I couldn't have put it better myself. Although, there will be times where I will view them as just a sex object only. But there's nothing wrong with that. Edited May 17, 2011 by Ross MwcFan
Ross MwcFan Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Maybe it is because I am choosing the wrong dating sites ( should try christian ones) majority of the guys that have messaged me start talking about sex and what am I wearing?? Hello we haven't even met yet and you are already asking me about sex and what I am wearing?? I am a attractive girl maybe guys assume I am easy and can take advantage of me and treat me as a sex object? What are you wearing btw?
musemaj11 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 (edited) I know what you mean. Although i doubt any place in the world needs growth anymore, some places grow faster than others. Lets send sex bots to India and China! Especially China though since the One-Child Policy there have resulted in chronic issue of gendercide and there are way more men than women in China. Poor Chinamen. Sex bots are a threat to all women no matter how beautiful. Nah. Have you ever noticed that the cockblocker is always the ugly friend? The same thing with prostitution and porn. Their biggest opposition come from women who feel they cant 'compete'. Edited May 17, 2011 by musemaj11
phineas Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 No I need em to talk, daddy likes his talkative wimmens (referring to the robot gal) Don't forget someone needs to bring you a beer & make you a sammich. I jest. seriously. I'm on a cut. I don't drink beer or eat bread these days.
phineas Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Maybe it is because I am choosing the wrong dating sites ( should try christian ones) majority of the guys that have messaged me start talking about sex and what am I wearing?? Hello we haven't even met yet and you are already asking me about sex and what I am wearing?? I am a attractive girl maybe guys assume I am easy and can take advantage of me and treat me as a sex object? Word of advice, churchies are the worst. Both genders. The only difference between finding a man in a biker bar & a church is the biker will be honest about his intentions. If your on POF that's your problem right there.
thatone Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Maybe it is because I am choosing the wrong dating sites ( should try christian ones) majority of the guys that have messaged me start talking about sex and what am I wearing?? Hello we haven't even met yet and you are already asking me about sex and what I am wearing?? I am a attractive girl maybe guys assume I am easy and can take advantage of me and treat me as a sex object? christian dating is a good way to find a lot of emotionally/socially scarred people with deep seeded repressed issues. or did you miss the stories about the priests with the little boys? the majority of guys who message women are retards no matter where or who they are. the only difference in the religion obsessed ones and the other ones is the religious ones can convince themselves that they're right and everyone else is wrong, because god is on their side.
thatdog Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 errm. Here is one reason. http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/news/south-australia/slutwalk-womens-safety-protest-planned-for-adelaide/story-e6frea83-1226055192372 anyone else see something terribly wrong with this?
cutecatch Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Becuase that's all women are good for, to satisfy my needs.
DreamerGirl27 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 I'm slightly appalled and slightly amused at everyone's extreme misunderstanding of church people and God.
musemaj11 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 How exactly will beautiful women be able to compete against a fully functioning sex bot who is just as gorgeous and not charging each time a man wants to make love when the tech is perfected? They won't be able to. They'll need to object as much as any other woman. Lol, such a robot is not gonna come into reality until probably another 100 years.
Sanman Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Sex robots aside, I have to agree with what many here have said. If you want to be angry at men for the way one man treated you, you are free to do that. However, society (women included) are to blame for the issue. The dating game in our current materialistic and shallow culture means anything goes. Don't want to ever marry anyone? You don't have have to! Want to be an unapologetic social climber with trail of bitter exes that you have traded in like an old BMW? Not only do we accept it, we may give you a reality show on a cable channel if you are pretty enough! Welcome to the modern age. While I am far from conservative and no fan premature judgement, I think we can all admit that the consequences of an ultra-liberal society is that selfishness abounds and is readily accepted. Don't really want a serious relationship with the person you are with? No need to tell them now as you can break up with them whenever you feel like as long as you are not married. Even if you are, affairs are okay. I mean all the celebs are doing it. Now, I am not going to say that I am some perfect person who hasn't participated in this culture or that I am better than anyone else. I have acted in ways I am not proud of before, but it is all accepted as part of our culture. For if I had not lied and gotten a women I didn't like into bed, would I have the sex and relationship skills to woo the women I eventually do want? I can say no. The practice allowed me to gain the confidence and experience I needed to not be awkward during the dating dance. That is something that many women here have admitted is important. It was a selfish but necessary thing to do in order to be competitive in the dating environment. So, I guess you can either be happy that you have been practice for this guy that another woman will benefit from in the future or you can revise that is important to you in looking for a relationship.
AmericanHoney Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I haven't joined POF. I joined Okcupid because my friends said I should give it a try and I did and now I am regretting it. I already got messages from people like I said asking me what am I wearing ( pervs?) and another one said hey can we go to a park and make out ? One guy even asked me to send him naughty photos:sick: Is that all guys on that site are interested in is sex?
thatdog Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 I haven't joined POF. I joined Okcupid because my friends said I should give it a try and I did and now I am regretting it. I already got messages from people like I said asking me what am I wearing ( pervs?) and another one said hey can we go to a park and make out ? One guy even asked me to send him naughty photos:sick: Is that all guys on that site are interested in is sex? What are you wearing in your profile pics? How flirty is your info?
AmericanHoney Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 (edited) I am wearing normal clothes and I happen to be an attractive and people assume just because I am pretty I must be easy.I also happen to be blonde and kinda look like Carrie Underwood. Edited May 18, 2011 by AmericanHoney
mr.dream merchant Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Clothes could be anything. My guess is you're pictures do suggest that you're a bit on the easy side, from a male point of view. How you ask? Clothing says alot about a person. Even more so, a woman. If you're showing alot of skin, that means (to a guy) that you want to be looked at. They'll then equate that to "she must want me to hit on her in a perverse fashion.". See where I'm going with this? Yeah it's not really your fault that the minds of these men get excited by your pictures (and I doubt it's cause you're wearing so much clothing that nobody could hardly ever mistaken you for a hoe *rolls eyes*) but yeah, it's kind of your fault. Shot in the dark, but I'm sure I hit something. A note to women who care to read, if you don't want to be mistaken for an easy lay ie. a hoe, stop wearing a hoe's uniform.
Woggle Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 "women shouldn't dress like "sluts" if they wanted to avoid being raped." Hmm...interesting.... No woman asks to be raped. Rape is about power and a rapist who will do it no matter a woman is dressed. There is a huge difference between sexuality and rape and I get sick of people confusing. Many misandrists equate all male sexuality with rape and degradation but the two are very different.
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