Delilah5 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 My story isn't unique, but I have to talk it out somehow. I've been trying to encourage folks on here today. It's helping me get through my own lost relationship. I'm really sad, but the tears have stopped. But the confusion remains. I met my ex on a dating web site almost 10 months ago. (I know it hasn't been that long.) We struck up a very good friendship and then finally we met three mos. ago. Both of us had been hurt badly by our spouses and were both a little afraid. But we hit it off and became intimate. It was extremely good for both of us. He used to call me three or four times a day. Last week something went wrong and I'm not sure what. But he stopped calling me. He popped up in my chat, but said nothing. Stupid me sent him a message telling him that if he was there to tell me to eff off, not to bother. That I got the message loud and clear. He obviously doesn't like me anymore. Then I logged off and stayed off the computer the rest of the night. The next morning I logged in and he was still perched there. He hadn't left a message. Nothing. I deleted him from my contacts. When I went back later, I put his address back into my contacts to see what would happen. About four hours later I went back and there he was again. I hurried up and went offline. Minutes later, I went back and he had logged off. I messed up because I fell in love with him. I never told him. It hurt me bad and still does. I miss him. I've decided to have absolutely no contact. No messages and no phone calls. I'm pretty sure he's done with me. I just wish I knew why. Thanks to this site and all of you great people, I have been able to get through this day with no tears and the pain is lessening. I feel for all of you and truly do understand what you are all feeling and have sympathy and empathy. I hope that we all come out of this sad mess and become much wiser people and that we will all find the happiness with people who will truly appreciate our worth and our right to be loved. Thank you all.:D:D:D:D:D
sun_moon Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 It all sounds so sudden and confusing. You are brave for going cold turkey so quickly, I commend you for that. Something tells me its because or your sting from your divorce, you are used to the action of NC by now???. I want to start over as well, its the only thing I can do. Its quite difficult when your heart is in so much pain.
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