MagicMarkers Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 (edited) First of all I'd just like to say that I'm still in highschool. Now I went on this really FANTASTIC date with this girl last night. It was really cute, actually. We just played in the park for hours and everything. We had been talking over Facebook literally non-stop for the past week and we just hung out after school and we both had tons of fun and I am totally head-over-heels for her. When I got home, we talked on facebook for three hours and then talked on the phone for two. Normally, I'd say that she likes me because of the constant talking and stuff but I'm not entirely sure because of her mixed signals. She's constantly saying she loves me, teasing me, calling me her best friend, etc. She also seemed to mimic a lot of movements and laugh at most of my not-funny jokes. However, she's also sending some negative signals, like when I asked her when we could hang out again she just said that she wasn't sure. Major overthinking on my part, but still it worried me how she said it. She also talks about her ex a lot, which is the main thing I'm worried about. She mentions him a lot, and when I asked if she was over him, she said that she "thinks she is". What is Loveshack's verdict? Edited May 14, 2011 by MagicMarkers
SomewhatExperienced Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Sounds like she likes you, but may have some baggage from her last relationship. I'd say make it clear that you're interested in her more than just a friend (maybe don't do it explicitly like telling her straight up, but don't fall into friend-zone, yet). Some girls, particularly young girls (and guys), don't have the confidence to give clear consistent signals when dating because they're scared of being rejected. I'd say be a man. Make it clear you want to date her, but don't be too invested in it. If she seems oblivious or not biting have a talk and say you like her and want to date her. If it feels right, ask her about her ex and how she feels about him. If she's not over him it's your choice what to do. Some might want to continue to pursue her and hope to change her over. I'd cut my losses and just be friends. If I'm dating a girl who I like and I know likes me back, I want her full attention and not have to deal with her feelings for another guy. You can still have a rewarding friendship with her if you don't date her. Oh, and how old are you guys? This might be relevant.
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