tinkstwin Posted April 12, 2004 Posted April 12, 2004 I met this guy David at a party but he wasnt really drunk. We are both seniors in hs but go to different highshools. The next mon a random friend of his told me he wanted my number so i gave it to his friend to give to david. He called me a few days later but his friends are always around when he calls! We planned to kick it sometime and yesterday he showed up at my work and took brake with me. ( i work in the mall) We talked one on one which was nice he even hugged me goodbye. Later that night he asked me to kick it with him and his friends which I did but it was pretty pointless considering they were skateboarding and i felt invisable and he didnt talk to me much. Eventually i went home cuz my ride had to be home by midnight. Later that night him and his friend met me at a park near my house. They were tipsy and his 2 friends were making out with chicks. Finally david wasnt ignoring me around his friends. He put his arm around me and hugged me and we actually talked one on one. Eventaully the night ended. He calls me today and his friends are in the background (as usaul!) one guy was like "we drove all the way there and you guys didnt make out" and david was like "i know we should make out next time" I heard another guy talking dirty but david told him to "shut the hell up" But basically, I dont know what to do. Does this guy like me? Or does he just want to get laid? Should I kiss him? I dont know how to handle this situation...
hurtingandconfused Posted April 12, 2004 Posted April 12, 2004 I heard another guy talking dirty but david told him to "shut the hell up" Guys do this all the time, and we like it. Does this guy like me? Sounds like it. Or does he just want to get laid? Perhaps. Should I kiss him? If you feel comfortable around his friends. I dont know how to handle this situation... To me it seems as if he's scared to be by himself. He's intimidated by you and he needs the support of his friends. Talk to him if you are interested in him and ask him what's up. Ask him why his friends are always there when he calls. Tell him that you like him(if you do) and tell him that you want to hang out with him sometime ALONE.
MustBeGoingCrazy Posted April 12, 2004 Posted April 12, 2004 It doesn't sound as if you've known him for very long, could just be cooincidental. I don't think his life revolves around his friends, although since he probably doesn't have a girlfriend right now, chance has it he spends a lot of his time with them. I'm sure he, as would most guys, would be willing to have more of the one on one's that you seem to have enjoyed were you two dating. I think you should try inviting *him* to kick it some time Then he would know you were interested, and you would be able to call the shots, as it were. Guys are just as nervous as girls, maybe he feels more comfortable with you around his friends? moral support, as it were. I'm sure if you invited him somewhere, he would have the courage to make his move, assuming that is what was holding him back. And personally, it doesn't matter if he is just looking to get laid, unless you're willing to lay him if he likes you... I personally think you should wait a while on that one, and the answer will become evident My 2¢, best of luck!
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