fun2bewith Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 about someone everyday and missing someone? When I asked my ex after 7 months of NC: "Did you miss me?" Her reply was immediately: "no". When asked her: "So you did not think off me at all?" Her reply was immediately: "of course I was thinking of you". So what is the difference?
WTRanger Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Thinking about someone means just that. She was remembering the times with you, both good and bad. She probably was saying, "We had fun that one time." Missing someone means that you are sitting there going, "Oh good God, I wish I were with him!" There's a big difference between the two. Stop analyzing what she said and move on. In the future, never ask an ex if they miss you. That makes you still look clingy in their eyes, like you've gone no where in the time you've been broken up. It's best to always keep that question to yourself as you'll never get a good answer and whatever the answer is, it will raise an endless stream of new questions.
Author fun2bewith Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 (edited) Thank you WTRanger, I know sometime I just need to grow a pair.... And I just realized, I was thinking about her more than I missed her and the only thing I miss was our conversations... Edited May 14, 2011 by fun2bewith
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