OCCDAVE Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Well i was hanging out with a friend mandy during the time i was with amy who i thought was gonna be my gf.Well thursday night she invited me over to her house for dinner.I was excited cause few times we have met we didn't really get to have alone time.So i get there seems her friend sherri and justin are there no biggie we were gonna watch the game which we all did.That point it was well into the night and guess what few more friends came over at this point i started to get a bit ticked off but said screw it go with the flow.I then which started as a joke cause she was trying to hold my arm i said can you move your being annoying.Her reply excuse me i didnt do anything i said good keep it like that.At that point i had a room of people if looks could kill about to jump so i decided to leave.I said i was sorry made a mistake she said no you embarressed me in front of everyone i dont have time for your bs. Long story short give it time to cool down cause shes not answering text or calls
thehead Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Yes. Give it time to cool down then try to contact her again. Why did you react that way? Just annoyed?
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 truth be told i kept gettin the idea she wanted me to leave.we were sittin and she asked me so you work in the morning,later on you dont have a curfew do you and her numerousnumerous cig breaks.give it few days and text her ?
thehead Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 truth be told i kept gettin the idea she wanted me to leave.we were sittin and she asked me so you work in the morning,later on you dont have a curfew do you and her numerousnumerous cig breaks.give it few days and text her ? Give it a few days and call. Even if you have to leave a voice mail, calling shows more of an effort.
little.skittles Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Of course calling her will show you that you care but only call her once and leave a message, don't call her obsessively, it will make you look crazy. I'm not trying to make you feel worse but if I was in her shoes, I'm not sure I'd talk to you again. Just keep your cool under control and don't do anything crazy that will annoy her, it will only make things worse.
Kari Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Give it a few days and call. Even if you have to leave a voice mail, calling shows more of an effort. This. If she doesn't respond and continues to be upset about the situation, then it would be best to move on. Hope the situation looks up for you.
Mikau Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 If your friends stop being friends over one time you made a mistake while annoyed I wouldn't consider them true friends really. Everybody gets annoyed and lashes out from time to time, it shouldn't be a big deal if you're close.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 ill give it a few days then call say she answers what should i say.
Wang101 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 ill give it a few days then call say she answers what should i say. Yeah, let things cool down first, then call or best if you can meet her. Tell her you're sorry and didn't meant to hurt her feelings on that day. Don't give excuse like you're drunk at that time though. Just be honest and say it was just a misunderstanding and you really hope your friendship will continue.
Kari Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 Yeah, let things cool down first, then call or best if you can meet her. Tell her you're sorry and didn't meant to hurt her feelings on that day. Don't give excuse like you're drunk at that time though. Just be honest and say it was just a misunderstanding and you really hope your friendship will continue. This, and apologize for any miscommunication / misunderstandings. Hope all turns out well.
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