Sugarkane Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 I was seeing a friend of a friend over the summer. My friend was staying with a friend for the summer holidays. The guy must be in his fifties/sixties. He has daughters but only sees them on weekends. I got to know thi guy, as my friend was staying there. But when the summer ended, my friend had to go back home interstate. But the guy still contacts me. He asked me to dinner and drinks, I thought other people were going to be there. He made out that tehre would be. I went and there wasn't anyone else! Then he gets drunk and hits on me. He also made excuses to touch my legs. He used to be a fashion photographer and asks me if he can take sexy pictures of me. It was so digusting, the guys old enough to be my father! I keep making up excuses not to go. But he doesn't take the hint and keeps asking me to go over. What do I do?
Author Sugarkane Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 He aked me to come over. He's supposed to have the daughters at the weekends. But when I go over there, I NEVER see them! Its like he gets rid of them, so he can be alone with me.
spiderowl Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 You seem to have some worry about actually saying no to him; I wonder why. The guy is out of your age range and you seem to find him sleazy. He's clearly trying to get you alone. He's giving the impression you won't be alone with him when you meet so he's tricking you really. What do you owe someone like this? Nothing. Just say no thanks. If he queries it, tell him you don't want to date and he's not the right person for you. If he says he's not trying to date you, just be friends, then tell him that's not the impression you're getting. You don't have to put up with this guy making approaches and touching you. You have every right to reject any guy you are not interested in and he should accept that gracefully or he's putting pressure on you and that would be very unethical indeed.
Mr.Raindrop Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 You told him no, it should be done and over with. If he continues to harass you, just go to the police.
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