singlelife Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 What do the women get out of this type of relationship with a bastard? WHat do the men get from being with a goodie two shoes?
Woggle Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 The women get their taste of the wild side and the men get an innocent and naive girl they can take advantage of.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 You know, ladies, if so many guys are saying it, there must be some truth to it... Even the Bad Boys admit it!
Ginger Beer Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 The women get their taste of the wild side and the men get an innocent and naive girl they can take advantage of. Sad but true.
SxB Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 What do the women get out of this type of relationship with a bastard? WHat do the men get from being with a goodie two shoes? What makes the Woman so "good"? Just because some one looks all sweet and innocent or acts like it means SH*IT, what you're going to want to do is pay attention closely to there ACTIONS and CHOICES. The Woman aren't gullible and can't be taken advantage of without allowing it, they aren't stupid, unless they were born yesterday. The woman in this AREN'T VICTIMS. They know better. You would be the only gullible one to think otherwise and victimize these Woman. If a Woman is going to hook up with a bad boy they share SIMILARITIES. Don't be surprised when she does the same **** the "bad boy" does that makes him "bad" in the first place. And it won't be because he forced her. It's all her and her choice. Anyway, what's good and bad is entirely subjective.
musemaj11 Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Bad boys are sexually appealing just like bad girls.
Author singlelife Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 So I guess it's mostly about the sex girl can explore then. Interesting.
makelemonade1974 Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 (edited) If a Woman is going to hook up with a bad boy they share SIMILARITIES. Don't be surprised when she does the same **** the "bad boy" does that makes him "bad" in the first place. And it won't be because he forced her. It's all her and her choice. Anyway, what's good and bad is entirely subjective. I do think that some people are emotionally manipulative and sometimes the "choice" becomes a bit fuzzy. I go for "bad boys," so I'll speak from experience. Jerk guys (and for me they have to be hot and intelligent - terrible combination) are like a puzzle - like there's some soft, sweet person underneath that you can discover if you put the pieces together the right way. The problem is, most of the time these types are just as shi tty underneath as they are on the surface. Bad boys have something women covet - the self-assurance to not care what people think and be total jerks. Arrogance suggests confidence and strength. For me (and many women) strength is conflated with virility and masculinity. These men are hyper-masculine in a way that can be appealing. And I don't think anyone could call me a "good" girl, so I also agree that such women have similarities with these men. Edited May 14, 2011 by makelemonade1974
fishtaco Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 If people get what they want, then it's all good. Who cares if one likes to punch and one likes to get punched? Not my business.
DreamerGirl27 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 What makes the Woman so "good"? Just because some one looks all sweet and innocent or acts like it means SH*IT, what you're going to want to do is pay attention closely to there ACTIONS and CHOICES. The Woman aren't gullible and can't be taken advantage of without allowing it, they aren't stupid, unless they were born yesterday. The woman in this AREN'T VICTIMS. They know better. You would be the only gullible one to think otherwise and victimize these Woman. If a Woman is going to hook up with a bad boy they share SIMILARITIES. Don't be surprised when she does the same **** the "bad boy" does that makes him "bad" in the first place. And it won't be because he forced her. It's all her and her choice. Anyway, what's good and bad is entirely subjective. Agreed. Very nice way to put it.
DreamerGirl27 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 I do think that some people are emotionally manipulative and sometimes the "choice" becomes a bit fuzzy. I go for "bad boys," so I'll speak from experience. Jerk guys (and for me they have to be hot and intelligent - terrible combination) are like a puzzle - like there's some soft, sweet person underneath that you can discover if you put the pieces together the right way. The problem is, most of the time these types are just as shi tty underneath as they are on the surface. Bad boys have something women covet - the self-assurance to not care what people think and be total jerks. Arrogance suggests confidence and strength. For me (and many women) strength is conflated with virility and masculinity. These men are hyper-masculine in a way that can be appealing. And I don't think anyone could call me a "good" girl, so I also agree that such women have similarities with these men. I'm basically considered a "good" girl because I do everything the right way, but if I could get a "bad" boy to marry me, he would not be thinking I was so "good" after that... It's not that I'm anti-sex and this little prude, Christian, goodie two shoes, it's that I have a heart and I don't want it to be walked all over and broken in half. That says nothing about what I will do in the bedroom if I were in a seriously committed relationship. Plus, I don't drink, smoke or do any drugs so a lot of people view that as a "good" girl as well, but if I do one little tiny thing like swear on a status update, my truly "goody two shoe" girls are raising hell (no pun intended) about it and thinking I'm going to ruin my "rep". I'm not as good as everyone thinks. I just 1) follow the law and 2) am morally conscious and aware that I am sensitive. I know how hurt I would get if I let myself let a "bad boy" have his way with me. Which is why I'm 26 and still a virgin, because I am attracted to "bad boys", but I want one to commit to me and eventually marry me. It's mostly physical, which also isn't common of a "good girl". Most "good girls" will go out with a guy they aren't necessarily attracted to. I'm firm and put my foot down. If you're ugly, I'm not even thinking twice. Unfortunately, what I find attractive, tends to be very shallow, bad boys. I have yet to find one that will commit to me, because then they wouldn't be "bad boys" anymore. But any other guy is really ugly... I don't want a guy who shops at Aeropostale and wears khaki colored pants, thank you very much. I want the grungy, edgy looking pierced up rocker tattooed guy. You think I'm gonna be able to marry someone like that? No seriously...because I'm not getting married until I do.
Author singlelife Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 I'm basically considered a "good" girl because I do everything the right way, but if I could get a "bad" boy to marry me, he would not be thinking I was so "good" after that... It's not that I'm anti-sex and this little prude, Christian, goodie two shoes, it's that I have a heart and I don't want it to be walked all over and broken in half. That says nothing about what I will do in the bedroom if I were in a seriously committed relationship. Plus, I don't drink, smoke or do any drugs so a lot of people view that as a "good" girl as well, but if I do one little tiny thing like swear on a status update, my truly "goody two shoe" girls are raising hell (no pun intended) about it and thinking I'm going to ruin my "rep". I'm not as good as everyone thinks. I just 1) follow the law and 2) am morally conscious and aware that I am sensitive. I know how hurt I would get if I let myself let a "bad boy" have his way with me. Which is why I'm 26 and still a virgin, because I am attracted to "bad boys", but I want one to commit to me and eventually marry me. It's mostly physical, which also isn't common of a "good girl". Most "good girls" will go out with a guy they aren't necessarily attracted to. I'm firm and put my foot down. If you're ugly, I'm not even thinking twice. Unfortunately, what I find attractive, tends to be very shallow, bad boys. I have yet to find one that will commit to me, because then they wouldn't be "bad boys" anymore. But any other guy is really ugly... I don't want a guy who shops at Aeropostale and wears khaki colored pants, thank you very much. I want the grungy, edgy looking pierced up rocker tattooed guy. You think I'm gonna be able to marry someone like that? No seriously...because I'm not getting married until I do. Interesting. Seems like bad boys are your thing.
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