Sugarkane Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Its been a long time since the breakup that brought me here, but I'm still single. I've dated 2 guys since I first came here. the first one I was crazy about, but he played games and couldn't make up his mind what he wanted. The second seems crazy about me, but wanted to fast forward our relationship. I didn't feel the chemistry with him. Is it true that you only get over someone, when you're with someone else? Sometimes I really miss my ex, mainly when I'm just bored or lonely. It just makes me think with all the breakups on here, isn't amazing that any relationships last? Sometimes I don't see the point, when all the stories on here, people got e.g GIGS and ended things. When dumpers do the most cruelest things, just to try and justify breaking up with us.
PrettyLady1 Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 So whats your problem? Its hard to meet a good person. The best thing you can do is choose the right ones and dont put up with any bull s***. Learn all you can from your mistakes and make sure you dont repeat the same ones. One day you'll be over all of the losers and ready for a winner. It all starts with you though. If theres something you dont like in someone leave right away before you fall for the wrong one again.
WillSingForFood Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Every time someone breaks my heart it just makes me look more forward to the day when someone wont. Probably wont happen, but one can always hope
PrettyLady1 Posted May 15, 2011 Posted May 15, 2011 You shouldn't let it get to the point where people are braking your heart. Once in a while it might happen because you can't always have control of every situation but when you do get the opportunity to have control, take it and dont let anyone hurt you anymore. I definitely agree with having hope, I'm full of hope but one thing i wont let happen is ppl breaking my heart if i can help it. You need to be strong remind yourself why your so valuable, because you are valuable.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 15, 2011 Author Posted May 15, 2011 I am sorry I've been feeling cynical of late. But people at work haven't helped at all either. I'm one of the youngest at work. Everyone is older and is married with children. But they ask me "when are you going to get pregnant?". I find this extremely rude as they know that I'm single. Coudl people be anymore callous?
PrettyLady1 Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Its okay, dont worry. That is very rude of them. Just joke back with them and try not to let it bother you. I am also the youngest at work and i get picked on A LOT by one of my coworkers so i just have to talk s*** back to him and laugh everything off or I would probably not enjoy work. Are you still feeling down about your first ex?
Author Sugarkane Posted May 17, 2011 Author Posted May 17, 2011 I am I've been ill lately and not having a good time. I need a good holiday or something. Plus I've had a couple of triggers: I found a memonto from my ex by accident. I threw it away in the garbage bin. I also watched a movie and there was a character in it, thats so exactly like my ex. He pretends everything is fine and then leaves his wife out of the blue. Then files for divorce. It got me thinking about my ex again. I just can't stand my rude co workers. They always ask me about when I'm going to settle down, even though they know I'm single. Mind you they never once set me up with anyone. Married people really annoy me sometimes! They've been married for so long they can't remember what its like to actually be single.
PrettyLady1 Posted May 18, 2011 Posted May 18, 2011 Aw im sorry. You need some good activities. Good job on throwing that away. Your probably seeing your ex in any possible way you can see him in something or someone. just shrug it off when it happens. Dont focus on it because that will only make you feel worse. Do you have friends that you can hang out with so you can get your mind off him? that would be really good for you. If you keep feeling like crap because of him, your going to drive yourself crazy. And about your coworkers i think you need to tell them how you feel or just be rude back so they get the hint. Nothing is better than being single sometimes. Gives you time to focus on yourself. Fix yourself up, change your look, get in shape, you know do some positive things for yourself.
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