llodell88 Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 (edited) old email this was near the beginning of the email I gave you more respect than anyone I'd ever met, but I couldn't connect anymore so the feelings died. I slowly stopped caring about you. last paragraph Also, my way of dealing with things is avoiding you because its killing me to deal with this. I swear I felt like I died inside. It took a hell of a lot of guts to come and tell you I wanted it to end and have slowly wasted away since then. I cared about you so deeply and it hurt me to churn my feelings around. I cared about you but I was filled with doubts. There was no way to win. --- i think hes just being melodramatic. i was not sleeping well for a while before we broke up, maybe less than 20 hours in a week before the breakup...definitely had 2 sleepless nights, and he was sort of ignoring me every time i saw him so i don't think he was paying attention enough to know what was going on with me...he said it was because he didn't feel close to me anymore the last time i saw him, sometimes he says its because i wasn't affectionate...before he was blaming it on my doing badly in school...he also said he thought i wasn't important to him anymore...hes just all over place...anyway i just feel like he doesn't even know why he broke up with me... he used to tell me he think he has bipolar disorder but im starting to think borderline personality disorder after reading about it more...broke up with me every 6 months for last 2 years, this time is probably permanent...usually happens after he makes some new friends, also these friends are mostly more permanent...wondering if its something to confront him about if we do talk again? Edited May 14, 2011 by llodell88
rayne05us Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 It sounds like he's justifying the break up in his head and he's feeling guilty about everything. Which he should, he's doing this to you every 6 months for goodness sakes. But none of that is for you, it's to make him feel better. At least that's the way I see it.
Fufu Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Your ex sounded like my ex. My ex said something like this, "You matter the most to me which is why I have to break up with you." and "breaking up with you is the most painful decision I ever made." As well as, "I know we can work things out, but i'm still feeling hell and I feel that we are destined to fail." Contradicting and/or confusion, I no longer care. A person who truly wants to be with you will not resist being with you. Don't wait around for your ex.
nana841121 Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 They are lost in their lies. dishonest with you , and dishonest with himself . this bad streak will take a toll on him someday
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