teaforone Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Should i apologize to the guy i like for not being able to hang out with him last Saturday? He asked me to hang out but i couldn't because by the time he got off work and grabbed some food, and then came over to get me it would have been too late. He seemed pretty bummed about it even though i suggested we do something the next day. He hasn't asked me to hang out again since then. Do you think he feels butt hurt about it? I'm not even really sure what to say.
Rinnix Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 You don't need to apologize, you tried to reschedule. He likely did feel rejected, but you didn't do any wrong. You can always ask him to do something together. If he doesn't respond or lacks interest then best to move on!
ladyinlimbo Posted May 14, 2011 Posted May 14, 2011 Who is this guy? Someone you've been seeing for a while? Or just met? How late would he have stopped by to get you had you agreed? Did you give him any explanation as to why you said no? Did you tell him you what you told us here; that by the time he got off work and got something to eat that it would have been too late? You did try to make alternate plans, so it's not like he was totally rejected. Perhaps he was just hoping to get laid and nothing more, and you threw a wrench into his plans in that respect and now he's acting all childish? Have you been seeing him for a while? Need more info. But off the top of my head I'd say "NO" - there's no need for you to apologize. The world doesn't revolve around him, things have to work for you, too. It's a two-way street and if he pouts and acts like a tit when things don't go his way well who needs that?
Author teaforone Posted May 14, 2011 Author Posted May 14, 2011 Who is this guy? Someone you've been seeing for a while? Or just met? I've known him for almost 6 years, but we just started hanging out with each other about a month ago. How late would he have stopped by to get you had you agreed? It probably wouldn't have mattered to him, it's my parents they still give me a curfew at 23. Did you give him any explanation as to why you said no? Did you tell him you what you told us here; that by the time he got off work and got something to eat that it would have been too late? Not really no. I was too embarrassed to tell him it was because of my parents. You did try to make alternate plans, so it's not like he was totally rejected. Perhaps he was just hoping to get laid and nothing more, and you threw a wrench into his plans in that respect and now he's acting all childish? With him, i seriously doubt that's what he wanted. Have you been seeing him for a while? A month i guess? Need more info. But off the top of my head I'd say "NO" - there's no need for you to apologize. The world doesn't revolve around him, things have to work for you, too. It's a two-way street and if he pouts and acts like a tit when things don't go his way well who needs that?
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