lastresort Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Heres my story.. was with my ex-wife for the past 15 years married 9, 2 kids. In January she left me with the kids and moved to her moms. Well when she left i said i would not date until my kids were older and they would understand better, they are 5 & 7, boys. Long story short night before Easter out for a friends going away party and ran into a girl i have known 20 years. We hit it off she told me she had a crush on me since middle school. I laughed, she asked lots of questions about why my marriage failed, i didn't realize what she was doing, my friends sure did, one thing lead to another and we hooked up, didn't sleep with her. just hooked up. Now that was a few weeks ago, we have talked on the phone a few times and now all she does is text me, she lives about 70 miles away. My thing is this normal for people these days to just text each other? I hate texting and i actually quit responding to her text about a week ago cause she doesn't answer phone calls. I know she is not involved with any one else, her roommate is one of my friends sisters. The real bad thing is her dad is a drinking buddy of mine and also preached my wedding and is friends with the ex as well. Not sure if i should pursue this can of worms. On top of it this week another colleague of mine took me out on a double date with her and another single girl, turns out I have known this girl for about 12 years and the other one hooking us up didn't know, the girl i got hooked up with had already put 2+2 together. We have gone out one other time since then and we both are in the same field of work and actually rivals in business, so it is kind of fun talking and getting to know her better. Sorry for the scattered post, i just really want to know about communicating with the ladies in todays technology based lifestyles. Thanks for reading. PEACE
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