SigOne Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I've been going out with this girl about 5 times already and today, I think it's time to make the first kiss. There's so many videos on this but all they talk about is having good breath and don't swallow her with your mouth but they never talk about HOW to kiss. I'm thinking: 1) tilt head, lock lips 2) tilt head other way, lock lips 3) end at middle, pull back (all in 3 seconds) Sound good? Any tips? Hands and lip position like this (yes, it's Aragorn and Arwen...haha) http://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/3100000/kiss-aragorn-and-arwen-3152314-350-447.jpg Thanks!
Ross MwcFan Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 (edited) It's something that just happens naturally, so just let it happen naturally. It's not something you need to work out or need instructions on. In fact if you do think about it too much, and think 'okay, so I'll do this, and then I'll do that', you will more likely be bad at it. Btw, holding her head like that guy in the picture seems a bit daft. I've never seen anyone do that in real life. Edited May 13, 2011 by Ross MwcFan
oaks Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 First kiss is supposed to be awkward. Having instructions is cheating.
Author SigOne Posted May 13, 2011 Author Posted May 13, 2011 Btw, holding her head like that guy in the picture seems a bit daft. I've never seen anyone do that in real life. Really??? What are you suppose to do with the hands? She'll most likely be sitting to my side (during fireworks) so I need a way to get her face to turn towards me. So I thought the hand around the head would be a good touch
SMHEO Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I know its probably the last thing you want to hear but it is natural, just let it happen. Make sure your lips are soft, dont be too tense. Gently moving her chin towards you with your index finger works if you want her to face you. As for the previous poster holding her head like that can be pretty hot if youre looking for a passionate kiss. The best advice I can give you though is to just go for it. Dont keep putting it off.
Author SigOne Posted May 13, 2011 Author Posted May 13, 2011 Cool sounds good. If I can't do it during the fireworks (if there are too many people behind and around us) it might be in the car ride back. I'm planning on pulling over to the side of the highway with romantic music playing and kissing her then. What do I say afterwards? Will seem kinda awkward, just stop and kiss and then drive. lol
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Just let it happen naturally. Kissing is a natural thing. Just go with the flow. If you're too worried about screwing up, you WILL screw up.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Really??? What are you suppose to do with the hands? She'll most likely be sitting to my side (during fireworks) so I need a way to get her face to turn towards me. So I thought the hand around the head would be a good touch You put your hands around her.
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 just stop and kiss and then drive. lol hmm... Elton John: Cannn you feel the loooove tonight??? Her: Why are you pulling over? Him: *smooch* Her:...oh. . Him: *revs engine* :lmao::lmao::lmao:
oaks Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 hmm... Elton John: Cannn you feel the loooove tonight??? Her: Why are you pulling over? Him: *smooch* Her:...oh. . Him: *revs engine* :lmao::lmao::lmao: That's cute.
NoMagicBullet Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 You're over thinking it, I think. One head tilt in one direction is enough, but like the others have said, go with what's natural at the moment. Just don't slobber on her. Wet, sloppy first kisses are a turn off.
Star Gazer Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Btw, holding her head like that guy in the picture seems a bit daft. I've never seen anyone do that in real life. You haven't? I swooooooon when a guy touches my face like that when kissing me... My girlfriends too. We gush after dates: "He did the hold/touch-my-face thing... :love:"
johan Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Lead with your tongue. Close your eyes, stick your tongue out and aim for where you think her mouth is.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 You haven't? I swooooooon when a guy touches my face like that when kissing me... My girlfriends too. We gush after dates: "He did the hold/touch-my-face thing... :love:" Touching her face is okay, but holding her face/head seems a bit daft. But, what do I know?
runner Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Lead with your tongue. Close your eyes, stick your tongue out and aim for where you think her mouth is. and if you miss, just wiggle your tongue on her face.
johan Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 and if you miss, just wiggle your tongue on her face. Yes just use it to search around for an opening.
runner Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Yes just use it to search around for an opening. but he's gotta do it as if he's painting love on her cheek. she'll think it's hot.
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