Wajeeh Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I have been in a relationship with this Gal and we were soo much in love and trusted each other for like 2 years , yesterday I asked her if she ever kissed someone before me , she said yes and the kiss was during our relationship and she explained why , she said that this guy tried to kiss her once while they were hanging out as only friends she didnt want to kiss back , then they went out for the second time and he offered her marjiwana and she just wanted to try it then he wanted to kiss her and she just kissed back , Why would she also go out with him for the second time while she knew he tried to kiss her in the first place . she says that she is ashamed of herself and she wanted to forget what happend and wants me to forgive her ? what should I do???
rayne05us Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Depends? Do you trust her? Do you think you can trust her after this? If you've been faithful to her and you show her respect then it should be reciprocated. Make sure you let her know that kind of stuff won't be tolerated so if she feels she can't be faithful to let you know...and then you can make a decision from there. Just talk to her and express your feelings. If you can let it go and move forward, then do that and all the best to you!!
Author Wajeeh Posted May 13, 2011 Author Posted May 13, 2011 Thank you very much , I think its a gd solution , but just one more thing she said that she just tried it once one smoke from the cigerate and then everything happend , so could it be the marijwana or could she control herself? in case you know the answer for that Thank u very much
rayne05us Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 I'm going to be harsh....stop making excuses for her!! She betrayed you and if you can let that go, that's one thing; but she has to take full responsibility for her actions. No "well it was this and that and...." NO. Just give yourself some space and time to think about it. It's not about so much what happened, but what going to happen. How is this going to affect you and your relationship if you stay with her? Will you be always on edge? Give yourself a lot of space to think about all of this before and if you go back....
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