Mister_Lonely Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 who she cheated on me with yet I have got the blame & am now being threatened. Ended 3 months ago after 2 years, ended because she cheated but tried to work it out after I found out, failed & she got with that guy. She continued to get in touch, met up, told me she missed me etc. I txted her a lot especially when drunk, stupid I know & I had her new fella warning me off. They began to have problems & apparently I was the cause because he didn't trust her. She sent us both a long message saying she is cutting ties with us both & I received abuse from him. I asked how long they were together & he said 7 months but ended for a week after I found out she was a cheat. This means she continued to see us both after I found out so basically she cheated on me with him & vice versa. Due to this they have ended & I have been threatened by my ex & the guy, apparently I better watch my back. I am glad they have ended bit didn't do it on purpose, she is a liar & he needed to know. They recently got tattoos of each others names, pathetic. Now she says she hates me & wants me dead, I never wanted that, once madly in love. Where do I go from here? NC & move on is the solution but don't want to have to watch my back every time I leave the house. Any suggestions on this messy situation?
collegeguy_24 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 If you are being threatened, save the texts or emails or whatever, and take them to the police and get a restraining order.
radiodarcy Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 If you are being threatened, save the texts or emails or whatever, and take them to the police and get a restraining order. agreed. and cut ties with your ex and her well - - now new ex - - they both sound like trouble.
Gisele Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Being threatened is grounds for a restraining order. You shouldn't have to be looking over your shoulder walking down the street because of two buffoons who want to pin their messy relationship on you.
smudge21 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Agree, report it to the police, whether or not you think it's serious enough. It's a threat and people need to realise they can't do those things. Go total NC for your own sanity now. You clearly must see how bad she is and the wrong girl if there ever was one. If anything you and the other guy should be joining forces as it sounds like you've both been lied to.
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