Bocigar Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 We've been seeing each other for 4 months before she felt that she has had enough. Like any other relationship we had fights that helped us build our relationship and realise all the wrong things we have done thats should never happen again. In the process of the relationship I used to think she was out of my league and I was a bit reserved and worried that one day she will up and leave me broken hearted, for some reason I felt that I should not care about her because either way she is gona leave me and I will be hurt and miserable, but I started seeing things differently, well we both had our egos to a point that no one wanted to say "I love you", up until when she one day calls me while she was under the influence and she says to me "I think Im in love", and i said "I think Im also in love", and the I said: "Dont you think that this conversation could be appropriate in person and of course on a sober mind" and she said its fine, I will see you tommorow. The following day, i call and she does not answer and I called again and she didn't. Then I used a friend's phone and she picked up and she told me we must break up. I tried to get the reasons why she wants us to break up but she goes and digs up all the bad things I'v done to her and that I have apologised for, which I thinks its not valid for the break up. Days have gona by and I'm struggling to forget her, I just seem to be fooling myself when I say Im over her. I called her this other night and she hung up on me, and called the second time, she gave a guy to answer her phone and the guy said to me "WE are sleeping". I need help..
Fufu Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 Seriously, I think you should accept the break up. Based on your story, I felt your ex-gf is not being committed to you. The relationship is only 4 months old and she already wanted to break up with you? Something is fishy and wrong here in my opinion. Secondly, She had already done the drastic and extreme action of not answering your phone calls. Firstly, hung your call, secondly pass her phone call to another guy. My gut, she got herself a new date/bf/whatever you called and then ended the relationship with you. My suggestion, accept the break up, move on and forward yourself. In time to come, you will meet a girl who will love you and be committed to you. In the meantime, treat yourself well and forget about this girl.
nana841121 Posted May 13, 2011 Posted May 13, 2011 To be honest with you , i am very familiar with your situation. Your ex has had two men in her life at the same time. when you were together , she had already got another man. she had feeling to you, but it was not strong enough. Just my personal speculation
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