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Been over 2mo NC, I want her back but feel indifferent


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I was dumped after a 6yr relationship. It was one of my darkest moments in life. Been working really hard to clear my mind and Im now reaching the point of indifference. I feel like there is a high probability of reconciliation, since she still has feelings for me and I do want her back but forcing myself into acceptance has made me feel indifferent. I dont care anymore. Im worried that this will make me ruin my chances at reconciliation if it is presented to me.

 

I had a future planned with her and now as I reach a milestone in my life/career Im excited about whats ahead. I feel like an idiot if I let her back into my life to enjoy the good days when she left me the moment I needed her the most.

 

I feel like part of me is telling not to move on when Im moving on. anyone had this happen?

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If she wasn't there for you when you needed her most, hang on tight to your indifference and keep moving on.

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Considering the factors presented in past threads, moving on appears to be the healthiest path, IMO. New opportunities will present and lessons learned can apply. Good luck :)

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Awwwee... Well I hope you are feeling better as the day goes by. Talk about why you 2 broke up in the first place if that's still possible. Contact her in humbleness without being too ahead of yourself. If it was scandalous on her part, just let her be or learn to forgive....... If not then Go GET your girl back dude!! Be gentle and humble and put the guard down. The man is supposed to be a provider anyways and this probably has nothing to do with you NOT having a job.

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